You can use repellent on the pesky little mossies, too bad there isn't on for TW's, I can spray or even launch in a 10 km radius around my working apartment. Just thinking about it puts a smile on my face.

hehe, I'm just picturing all these men dropping onto their backs twitching their arms and legs in the air - bzzzt,bzzt,bzzt 

The guy that had a proper pop at me has been back in touch explaining that he has had 'terrible' times with other escorts and that is the reason he threw an attack at me for cancelling when I was sick. He says he has read my blog and is apologising and wants to book me please.


The thing is, I would not see him now. I have a bad feeling about him and I don't think he should have come back to ask. I am not the only escort in Swansea, he can find another reasonably good one (don't want to say brilliant one as why shoot myself in the foot in that manner  ) I am not the only one here is my point.

I do not know if I should email him back and explain why I can't see him or ignore him completely - I have never had a guy that was nasty to me, return with an apology and an ask before and am very wary about the fact, no matter what I do, explain or ignore, he can change an email address and I would be none the wiser, see him anyhow and wholop, too late to stop the smack in the face or whatever.

I am pondering on what my response to him should be or even if I should make one at all.
Ain't life grand!
The answer right now is more coffee then a shower then we shall see, I am thinking about how best to handle this.
x

I wouldn't ignore him, it would seem rude when he's trying to offer you an olive branch. I totally get why you wouldn't want to see him now.

If it was I'd write and tell him the truth, that I'd feel uncomfortable seeing him as he showed no empathy or sympathy towards me when I tried to explain my state of health and that it had to take an excerpt from my blog to show you I was telling the truth, when you could've just taken my word for it.

It's nothing to do with you how other escorts have treated him. It'll teach him not tar us all with the same brush. And the way he behaved towards you shone a light into his personality. He's not somebody I'd want to spend time either. I don't blame you.

We as human beings do this type of generalizing in all parts of our lives and about lots of things, but men just automatically equate being an escort, ho, WG, prossie with the worst of human behavior. The fact you canceled of him because you were sick, just wasn't enough for him, so he lashes out and says some nasty things to you. Would he have even though such things about his doctor canceling an appointment? Then here is the part that gets me, he goes and reads your blog! Why? When in the first place your word  apparently wasn't enough for him, he goes one step further and looks up your blog? Why would he care what your blog says when he had already formed an opinion?
I would write to him, in that wonderfully eloquent way you have and basically tell him, why he no longer meets the criteria of someone with whom you want to spend time with. What a tosser.

We as human beings do this type of generalizing in all parts of our lives and about lots of things, but men just automatically equate being an escort, ho, WG, prossie with the worst of human behavior.

Spot on.

Quote from: LauraLee on 27 October 2009, 10:03:05 pm

"CAN I JUST SAY I AM SICK OF MEN WHO HAVEN'T SEEN A SHOWER SINCE THEIR COMMUNION, THOSE WHO THINK STICKING THEIR TONGUE IN MY MIDDLE EAR IS EROTIC, THOSE WHO THINK THEY'VE GOT ONE OVER ON ME BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T SHOW UP FOR A POXY HALF HOUR APPOINTMENT WHEN IN REALITY I WANTED TO FINISH WATCHING HOLBY CITY ANYWAY, THOSE WHOSE BREATH WOULD STRIP TWO LAYERS OF WOODCHIP WALLPAPER, THOSE WHO KISS LIKE AN OVER EXCITED DALMATION AND MOST OF ALL, THOSE WHO THINK CUNNILINGUS INVOLVES SINKING THEIR TEETH INTO MY LABIA WITH ALL THEIR MIGHT. I'VE FUCKING HAD IT."

Can I have this for my website? 

Yep, no problem. 

On Monday I got "I got your number from a friend who found your site for me. Can I have some details please." A slight variation on "my mate gave me your number" as they think they're inventing new ways to waste your time. But as long as we're in this business, we'll get all variations of timewasters.

I always used to write off this type of caller as a TW until one actually booked, showed up, and described his friend who I had indeed met!!  I've met a couple since then whose friends really had given them my number! (Again, they described their friends and I remembered meeting them).  So I've now had to re-assess how I deal with the "my friend gave me your number" callers (although the majority of these type of caller are TWs).

I think someone once mentioned that they were running out of names under which to store TW numbers - "Tosser", "Wanker", "Loser", "Dickhead" etc.  I usually just put them in as TW N/S DNA "date"  (if they were non-shows) or TW CALLER DNA "date".  (DNA = Do not Answer)

PS:  The first paragraph in italics was Brandy's.  Still haven't worked out how to do the highlighted quote thing.  Help on this would be appreciated 

If you want to use something someone has posted as a quote click on the icon on the top righthand corner of their post saying quote.

It will open a reply window with their quote at the top. Just be careful to start your reply beneath the  [/quote] otherwise your text will appear as if it were the quote.

Hope that makes sense. x