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emilyofsuffolk

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A free lunch
« on: 02 January 2012, 11:08:40 am »
Isn't it just lovely when clients expect you to go for a free lunch or dinner in your own time. Are they that flippin deluded that they think we should appreciate a free lunch in our own time? Yes, but of course they will pay for a booking afterwards  ::)

I like to point out that I went into this line of work thinking it was proper escorting & not having sex with strangers in 10mins of meeting them...I must be being too friendly. Amazingly I can afford to buy my own lunch & go to said fancy smanshy hotel/restaurant with any one of my freinds anytime I please.

Or does this work for hooking a sugar daddy? A friend of mine has managed to secure a couple of sugar daddies in this way (She's since quit though & that speaks volumes).


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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #1 on: 02 January 2012, 01:13:19 pm »
I had a client ringing me up all the time asking if i wanted to come over to his for a drink and to hang out for a little while. Only saw him once before those calls started happening. So i tell him that as long as he's paying me my regular fee, then yes, i'm happy to come over! ?200 to sip a glass of wine whilst watching Meerkat Manor? Hell yeah!!!
Of course he doesnt follow through... It seems he's got it into his head that we're friends and isnt too keen on paying for my time. At one point recently, i switched my phone off for 2 weeks because i was sick of him calling me up all the time for idle chit chat in the hope of getting a freebie...

I really think i need to go with my idea from last year... Making these douchebags sign a contract to state that they will not be falling in love/stalking/mistaking business with pleasure/calling without intent to make a booking... Failure to comply to contract will result in a John Wayne Bobbit 'hacking' job.  :)
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ladyjennaj

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #2 on: 02 January 2012, 03:16:39 pm »
I get this all the time. I don't do free lunches, and it makes me mad when people expect them.  :-\ Another case of men mistaking escorting for a dating service...

emilyofsuffolk

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #3 on: 02 January 2012, 03:34:00 pm »
I had a client ringing me up all the time asking if i wanted to come over to his for a drink and to hang out for a little while. Only saw him once before those calls started happening. So i tell him that as long as he's paying me my regular fee, then yes, i'm happy to come over! ?200 to sip a glass of wine whilst watching Meerkat Manor? Hell yeah!!!
Of course he doesnt follow through... It seems he's got it into his head that we're friends and isnt too keen on paying for my time. At one point recently, i switched my phone off for 2 weeks because i was sick of him calling me up all the time for idle chit chat in the hope of getting a freebie...

I really think i need to go with my idea from last year... Making these douchebags sign a contract to state that they will not be falling in love/stalking/mistaking business with pleasure/calling without intent to make a booking... Failure to comply to contract will result in a John Wayne Bobbit 'hacking' job.  :)

lol you feel like it don't you. I'm getting a few ideas from femdom tube!

ladyjennaj

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #4 on: 02 January 2012, 03:44:13 pm »
I think the contract sounds brilliant  haha ;D

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #5 on: 02 January 2012, 04:25:20 pm »
And when clients ask you out on 'dates' and you reply with 'sure, I charge xyz for a dinner date', their reactions can range from hangdog to downright purple faced anger, complete with steam emanating from the ears.
The best retort I was given was 'I don't pay for women's company' (from a client who sees me and at least one other escort every week....)
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ladyjennaj

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #6 on: 02 January 2012, 04:27:42 pm »
And when clients ask you out on 'dates' and you reply with 'sure, I charge xyz for a dinner date', their reactions can range from hangdog to downright purple faced anger, complete with steam emanating from the ears.
The best retort I was given was 'I don't pay for women's company' (from a client who sees me and at least one other escort every week....)
Delusion! It's a wonderful thing.  ;D

God, I know :-\

EvaBeeva

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #7 on: 02 January 2012, 08:56:12 pm »
I never know what to say to this.  I'll always tell them I'm busy :-\

I did have some guy called David call me for a couple of years, trying to get me to 'meet up for a drink with him'.  In the end he gave up.
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ladyjennaj

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #8 on: 02 January 2012, 09:25:50 pm »
I had a horrendous boundary-pusher once, who would keep on and on about taking me for lunch/dinner. I had to change my number  :-\

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #9 on: 03 January 2012, 11:32:58 am »
my regular and my first client has always been trying to get free time, dinners, driving lessons, dog walking anything really. and the thing is, he always got free time he never paid for the actual time i spent with him. usually only paying for a hour. stupid i know but he was my first and it got into a stupid habit. anyway, last night was the final straw. he gave me ?90 for about 3 hours not even the usual ?120. i told him it was not on, and he said yes but i drive you and feed you so take money off for that. and the fact you cum means you are having a good time (i have never come with this man!) i told him i already do him favors but he was now taking the piss. so i am ungrateful and would never get the amount of money i am charging!(i do) and i am going to suffer, and our relationship! yes that's right our RELATIONSHIP was over. so he then chucked me out in the middle of no where, after i got my pitiful  120! they really think you will do it for free! if you are nice and good at your job they really think you are lovers! its pathetic. i am so glad our RELATIONSHIP is over :) ha ha he was last years news. xx

Coty

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #10 on: 03 January 2012, 11:42:06 am »
Oh God Hettie, he sounds a nightmare...but I have a couple I let have extra time as they're regulars, and they can start really taking the piss...especially when they know work is thin on the ground.

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #11 on: 03 January 2012, 11:47:16 am »
That guy is a complete douchebag... No doubt he'll be calling you next week...
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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #12 on: 03 January 2012, 01:20:58 pm »
Sounds like you're well rid, 'relationship indeed'!
Ooh, and he 'fed' you like you were some kind of poor little waif and stray!
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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #13 on: 03 January 2012, 02:51:35 pm »
 ;D but  >:( for you hettie. What an absolute deluded wanker! You are well rid!
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EvaBeeva

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Re: A free lunch
« Reply #14 on: 04 January 2012, 10:23:17 pm »
To be honest all of my regs try to take the piss.  I find if I ignore them for a few months, they're usually go back to good behaviour.
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