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Ellie B

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #15 on: 16 April 2019, 01:35:26 am »
Best not to think about it too much and like some someone said, just look at it as a bonus; meeting a sweetie. Tomorrow is another day.

Could find a hobby you like doing to take your mind off it!


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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #16 on: 16 April 2019, 07:43:30 am »
Yeah, it's not as if I haven't got stuff to do to take my mind off it. Spending time with friends helps and then there's always my tax return to fill in  :D  What joy!  ;D
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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #17 on: 16 April 2019, 10:55:36 am »
I suppose the attraction of a client as a boyfriend is I won't have to have the awkward conversation of 'What I do for a Living,' with him  :)
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Ellie B

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #18 on: 16 April 2019, 07:15:50 pm »
I suppose the attraction of a client as a boyfriend is I won't have to have the awkward conversation of 'What I do for a Living,' with him  :)
And also don't forget the question asked by his friends and family " Well how did you two meet?"
Always a conversation stopper! Can't think why!

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #19 on: 16 April 2019, 08:45:17 pm »
And also don't forget the question asked by his friends and family " Well how did you two meet?"
Always a conversation stopper! Can't think why!

I can't think why either, given that we have online dating and hookup sites aplenty and people have more opportunities to find partners they may not have run into otherwise than ever before. If somebody doesn't want to tell the truth (and it works the same way in unpaid scenarios too - I don't recall ever telling my mother that I met my partner-of-the-time when I woke up underneath him after a Chemical Brothers gig ;D) then I'd imagine it's easier than it ever has been to come up with plausible stuff :).

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #20 on: 16 April 2019, 09:54:05 pm »
And also don't forget the question asked by his friends and family " Well how did you two meet?"
Always a conversation stopper! Can't think why!

This 'How did you meet?' question seems to be more a concern of other people, if you don't bring it up it tends not to be asked or deemed as important as imagined.

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #21 on: 16 April 2019, 10:19:57 pm »
This 'How did you meet?' question seems to be more a concern of other people, if you don't bring it up it tends not to be asked or deemed as important as imagined.

We met online, as most people meet these days  ;D

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #22 on: 16 April 2019, 10:29:59 pm »
We met online, as most people meet these days  ;D

And you wouldn't be lying  ;D
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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #23 on: 16 April 2019, 10:41:01 pm »
And you wouldn't be lying  ;D


Yes nobody needs to know that it was originally a transaction  ;D

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #24 on: 17 April 2019, 10:15:19 am »
I focus on something about him that annoys me...I do this with every guy who I like at work. Stops me from getting my emotions entangled.

Look for someone else who's unavailable...

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #25 on: 18 April 2019, 11:08:51 am »
Normally guys that hire escorts will always do so, even if they get into a new relationship. So it's highly likely they would still go see other girls or cheat on you. That is what will always put me off.

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #26 on: 20 April 2019, 01:06:18 pm »
We can not control who we fall for I have fallen for several clients - Im a push over  ;D

what we do bout it is what matters

Enjoy the bookings give no free sex tell no real life details
Enjoy the fantasy from a distance

Remember they pay is to go away << Vital to remember that

LOL I still remember 4 clients I fell for in 30 min bookings  8) I have an easy heart to fool so I keep my distance

Enjoy the fantasy and do not mix with reality 

PS I can only imagine dating a client as I would have to lie to a civvy about Escorting so he would have to be wealthy Im not going cheap dating 

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #27 on: 22 April 2019, 04:22:14 pm »
Normally guys that hire escorts will always do so, even if they get into a new relationship. So it's highly likely they would still go see other girls or cheat on you. That is what will always put me off.
Yes trust would not be my priority with these guys.

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #28 on: 24 April 2019, 07:01:39 pm »
I have a crush on a client right now actually and I've dated one in the past. I've been doing this over 8 years guess in all that time it's only natural to like a couple!  ;D I'm not sure what you can do if he doesn't live in your area tho  ??? ??? If you're defo not gonna see him again and he lives 8 hours away I'm not sure there is much you can do  :( :( :( 

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Re: A Crush on a Client - How do you deal with this?
« Reply #29 on: 30 April 2019, 02:14:14 am »
I'am always think that it never gonna happen, and only I give service.

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