I have met quite a few couples and had great times. It is always the man who
makes the initial call to me and I quickly but nicely tell him that I can not discuss
anything further unless the lady speaks to me.
It sorts the wheat from the chaff! No call from the lady and no appointment.
One guy rang 2 years ago and I had my doubts about him, just something about his voice,
but when I asked that the lady come to the phone she was right there next to him and although
she was a little nervous she was really friendly.
It was still no guarantee they would turn up but they did and have been visiting me every 2 months since.
We all get on great and they are a lovely couple, highly recommended! I would give them a reference any time