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TheLittleMatchGirl

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How/when did you know
« on: 03 December 2012, 09:26:34 pm »
aloha everyone :) just a nosey question...when/how/what made you decide to go down this road?
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Nevah

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Re: How/when did you know
« Reply #1 on: 04 December 2012, 01:13:53 am »
i decided to get into this because my husband and i got into some financial troubles.
we were at the point that we were pawing off jewelry... so one day when we were coming
back from the pawn shop i said to him i need to get into escorting so we can pay our bills faster.
he had no real choice he had to accept what i needed to do. my husband and i are practicing swingers so sex with random people which i enjoy. occasionally hubby works along side me when we get couples requests. escorting has improved my marriage and my finances.
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Taylor

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Re: How/when did you know
« Reply #2 on: 04 December 2012, 08:50:16 am »
I came back from working in Ibiza for the season, i had quit my full time job to go, i had to pay back a 5 grand loan fast! i used to strip and some on said about adultwork so i joined and i haven't looked back, i have a full time job again now though so only do it part time. but becoming an escort was great! i loved it! the lifestyle :)

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Re: How/when did you know
« Reply #3 on: 04 December 2012, 11:52:55 am »
Quote from: TheLittleMatchGirl on 03 December 2012, 09:26:34 pm
aloha everyone :) just a nosey question...when/how/what made you decide to go down this road?

It all began fed up being skint making me want things more to treat myself. Push came to shove when a good male friend got some numbers together for me. At first I was very shy, that moment before stepping out of the van outside the parlor changed my life for ever. Before going independent now. I have lost some good friends along the process. If knew then what I do now. I would of stayed in that life as miss my good friend we had so many laughs.   He was Italian a good cook. He even surprised me one time. He played on his guitar African Queen. That has been the most romantic thing any one has ever done for me.

My family kicked me out so was practically homeless at first sleeping here and there. Well really now my mum  thought I was going through a phase at first. Until realizing that I make my own choices. So now when I visit them we all talk about any thing but. Well I'm not ashamed and would some times revert back to escort life in conversations at the beginning. So mum's there for me now.
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sadie x

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Re: How/when did you know
« Reply #4 on: 04 December 2012, 05:41:58 pm »
i had no family support,was told to get a job at 16 which is near inpossible and find a way of supporting my self so young, it seemed the only option,was also homeless after a family member found a new love intrest..
i always envy people who have the support of people to see them through college and uni and know they will be ok..
now im older,wish i would of done escorting to support myself through it all.but hindsight is a lovely thing i was messed up and doing all the things that were bad for me.
i could do it all now i suppose but just not got the energy for uni now and will concentrate in trying to get my own business..
also still not decided what i could do at uni at 30 its ridiculous
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LucyA

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Re: How/when did you know
« Reply #5 on: 05 December 2012, 02:16:02 am »
The government screwed up my money after I got made redundant just before Xmas few years ago and told me it would take a few weeks to sort out, with a family to support I didnt see that I had many options. And it couldnt have come at a worst time, it boiled down to buying decent presents and decorations OR buying food and utilities.

So I took matters into my own hands and worked in a brothel.

But it was the best decision I ever made!!!!! Never again have I had to make a terrible desicion like that.
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Daisy Penny

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Re: How/when did you know
« Reply #6 on: 06 December 2012, 01:59:38 am »
Quote from: LucyA on 05 December 2012, 02:16:02 am
The government screwed up my money after I got made redundant just before Xmas few years ago and told me it would take a few weeks to sort out, with a family to support I didnt see that I had many options. And it couldnt have come at a worst time, it boiled down to buying decent presents and decorations OR buying food and utilities.

So I took matters into my own hands and worked in a brothel.

But it was the best decision I ever made!!!!! Never again have I had to make a terrible desicion like that.

LucyA, thanks for sharing - I don't have a family but I can completely understand how you came to the decision to work in a brothel to support them and it's good to hear it worked out well for you, not just for the short term! Stories like this make me even more angry about people trying to criminalise sex work... but that's another thread!
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