That is a hard one, but it seems to me that if you are meeting guys in clubs and online that can't be a great way to meet genuine guys. Sport, gym, bookclubs, anything that dosen't involve alcohol or pick up joints. Stop looking, is a good tip. You will bump into mr right when the time is right.

That is a hard one, but it seems to me that if you are meeting guys in clubs and online that can't be a great way to meet genuine guys. Sport, gym, bookclubs, anything that dosen't involve alcohol or pick up joints. Stop looking, is a good tip. You will bump into mr right when the time is right.

Hey now, it feels pretty strange to be arguing Joey's side twice in a day, but that's easier to say when about 49% of the people you meet when you're not looking are the right gender and sexual orientation to potentially be your Mr. Right.

Hey now, it feels pretty strange to be arguing Joey's side twice in a day, but that's easier to say when about 49% of the people you meet when you're not looking are the right gender and sexual orientation to potentially be your Mr. Right.

Yeah...its so much easier for women. Gay men may find sex easy, but its much harder to find a man of 'Mr. Right' potential in a normal setting, away from the 'gay parts of town' in certain cities. It sucks when I meet men at the gym, and they always say, "me and my girlfriend"...ah shit 

Im actually a Leo and my birthday comes up next month, which is why Im hoping shit gets better quickly.

he gained more milage out of this situation that you did.

LOL, I didnt know what LBFM  was until I looked it up...Well, I sort of did feel that sometimes it seemed like he was just trying to show off in front of his neighbors. And at one point, an old roomate came by and he kept trying to kiss me, and I told him, "stop, are you trying to make your former roommate jealous or something?" He denied it, but on a couple of occasions I see that he was trying to do exactly what you were saying.

I would get particularly annoyed when he'd bring up "us having sex later" to his neighbor or friends. I told him one day to not mention that to anyone else again especially around me because its non of their business to know about us having sex. Let them wonder. On the next pool party, he didn't bring it up again...

As far as more mileage gained...hmmm, its not a race. I'm sure all his neighbors and friends going to wonder WHY I stopped coming over, so Im sure thats going to backfire on his end. And what is he going to tell them? That I got upset when he refused to pay me for his sex fantasy?

Even if he tells another lie, I could care less what those crackers think about me anyhow. I noticed couple weeks ago that they are a team of gossipers, and one rather attractive 20s something roommmate/fuck buddy friend of his was the subject of their gossip which I found to be rather tasteless considering that I met this person before, and they made him out to be a bad person. So I can imagine that he'll find a way to SLAG me off in some way too. Like I said, its still going to backfire because they are going ot want to know the truth....whats he gonna tell them? A lie, he has to live with it!

moving to  a different place is great and good on you but if you take even a single problem that you have had with you to your new place then its the case of the same shit different state not a single thingk will change that 100percent gurantee please dont take offence


the beauty of escorting  is that you can be who the fuck you want to be ,  so reinvent yourself  when you move make your self the hard headed businessman that you deserve to be and dont fuck for free for fucks sake well  

keep your work and personal life seperate  any clients that want to see you out of work time tell them sure that  xxxx amount of money  

This is so true what Paris has said.  Totally reinvent yourself and learn from your mistakes and/or the things that have gone wrong where you are now.   At least then it hasn't all been for nothing.  

I think what you said about not showing your face in another post is a great idea too.  You will have more anonymity and therefore more control over people knowing you are an escort and wanting free sex out of you when you're just out partying and wanting to just be yourself for the night and not an escort.  Don't get me wrong I know not everyone is going to know you're an escort if you do show your face but I just think from what you've said that you should give it a try.  It will help to keep your profession secret if you do happen to meet the guy of your dreams and you don't want him to find out without you telling him.  

I'm really excited about your move Joey and can't wait!  I hope you do really well and i'm proud of you for just getting up and going.  

Well...there's a happy ending to this chaos...

I remembered over the weekend I left an expensive bottle of silicon lube at his place, and I was CERTAINLY not fixing to let him keep it nor go out to buy more especially since I wasn't getting paid for it (I used to leave lubes at people's place alot, until I got sick of replacing brand new bottles!)

So I went over and blew the horn a few times letting him know I was outside. My lube was returned, and there wasn't a single mention of what we had discussed in the email. There was nothing to talk about. I walked in, and walked out. It felt like the weirdest thing. As if...a relationship had ended.