I'm feeling a little down at the moment, work is very slow and I'm finding myself waiting in hoping the phone will go off just to get time wasters with stupid enquiry (how much for 30min outcall 60miles from where I live!).   I feel unmotivated to do anything as i'm so bored with cleaning the house  - how many times can you do it!  These dark nights arn't helping either!  It's just making me feel lazy and unsexy
I know its temporary but its just making me a bit miserable anyone else get like this?

It's very demoralising, but I also do some volunteer work, and that never fails to give me a kick up the bum! 

Amy - What a total idiot!

If it helps, I got a nasty and completely unexpected email from someone on Adultwork the other day calling me 'porky'.

Oooh, worra twat!! My pics are going up on AW next week, I'm size 28/30, I'll show him "porky" 



(amy - I LOOOOVE your pics on your website, gorgeous! And lovely figure! I had a quick drooool)

Nice to know this happens to other people and it's not just me, I suppose sometimes this is not talked about much.  Everyone expects escorts to be a certain way and don't think that it can get a bit stressful especially when alot of us don't have people we can talk to about it.
Didn't switch the phone on from last friday, went to the cinema and did a few little things to pick myself up so I'm ready for another week.

Ah, the miracle of Time Off    Very important to have time to yourself, but when things are slow it's tempting to be available every day, and it's sustainable for a while - but a Day With No Work is not the same as a Day Off  It catches up with you eventually. Ideally I'd like two days off per week, but it's slow so I'm having just one day where I'm not carrying the phone everywhere, ready to spring into action at a moment's notice.  And if I miss out on a booking, so be it. I need that day for my own wellbeing, and I'm a better escort for it.

the phone will go off just to get time wasters with stupid enquiry (how much for 30min outcall 60miles from where I live!).   I feel unmotivated to do anything as i'm so bored with cleaning the house  - how many times can you do it! 

Lucy, you must have been reading my mind...its been the same way with me that past few weeks!

I do get like that as well, and if Im feeling unsexy I just head out to the bars. And then all of a sudden I'm hot, great body, etc. Thing about escorting is, a slow month can give the illusion that nobody wants you. But its not true because the moment you aren't up for pay, all of a sudden tons of people are up for the taking.

It simply has to do with many people nowadays are just wanting a cheap fuck, especially around this time of year. However, I have heard several high-paying 'regular' punters usually stop hiring from January thru May or June. But at the same time, there's still plenty left for the taking.

I would recommend providing alternative services....like a cheaper version of Lucy who maybe offers less services. I'd also try touring. Even if its nothing but putting an ad up in a city thats an hour away and waiting for someone to make an advanced booking, its worth it. It makes a big difference to go to another city.

I'm starting to feel unsexy myself because Im getting tired of fucking ugly people. I try to balance out having sex with cute people, especially in this town I moved to....ugh, the clients are so unattractive! I know it sounds pretentious...but sh!t, There used to be a time where I'd get nothing BUT cute clients.