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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: barbiegirl on 13 August 2020, 03:33:13 pm
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Does anyone else cringe when they get asked this or is it just me? Why can’t you just pay for the hour? Most clients struggle to finish twice in one hour ::)
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I haven't been asked this but would only allow once for half hour.
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Everytime I get asked this they cum in 10 minutes then leave. Twice is the fantasy, they don't hold back because they think they want to get the 1st out the way. Then realise they are done and leave sharpish, maybe a little embarrassed realising their appetite is bigger than their reality! Guaranteed EVERYTIME Easy money ;D
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Does anyone else cringe when they get asked this or is it just me? Why can’t you just pay for the hour? Most clients struggle to finish twice in one hour ::)
Yes I hate that question ... And it's because they are cheapskates who want as much bang for their buck, literally! as they think they can manage
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Everytime I get asked this they cum in 10 minutes then leave. Twice is the fantasy, they don't hold back because they think they want to get the 1st out the way. Then realise they are done and leave sharpish, maybe a little embarrassed realising their appetite is bigger than their reality! Guaranteed EVERYTIME Easy money ;D
Thankfully I find this to be the case too the majority of the time and if they try for a second go I make it clear that once time is up it's up!
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I hate it if they ask this. Cheapskates not wanting to pay for the hour. I just tell him stop being tight.
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No, it's fine by me. I once had a client come 3 times in 30m! So long as it's PIV sex and not oral or HJ it's not a problem.
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I hate it. I hate it! So much so that I actually charge £20 extra for 2 blows in 30 mins or book 45-1hr. I don’t want PIV for the whole booking! I wanna chat lol
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I never allow more than 1 pop with a hhr (what are you, SuperMan?🙄), & if they fuss I simply tell them they’re welcome to extend....along with the expected additional donation.
Oh & along with my signature faux sympathetic, “I KNOW! 30 minutes just isn’t very long, right? Well, NEXT TIME!😀” Oh they get the message, yes sir they do🙄.
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Yes I hate that question ... And it's because they are cheapskates who want as much bang for their buck, literally! as they think they can manage
How is that even pleasant? It’s quite stressful, especially in this weather :-\
They say they want a GFE but I think their girlfriend would be very upset if treated like that ;D
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In all the half hour bookings I've had, one one client actually managed this and he did it himself the second time!
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Never allow that. If you do, most likely he won’t make his second time on time and will push as much as he can to extend and not pay for extra time as the second spunk is “just around the corner” ::)
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No, it's fine by me. I once had a client come 3 times in 30m! So long as it's PIV sex and not oral or HJ it's not a problem.
Yes, fine by me too - I've met some who get the first one out of the way when they've barely got their kecks off and it often means they can relax and pace the second go normally. They've paid me for thirty minutes, and what they do with it (within the services on offer, obviously) is up to them.
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I never understand why escorts put a limit on it. All men are going to max out at three and even that is extremely rare.
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They can cum as often as they like in the time they have booked. I can't see why it's an issue.
Putting restrictions on cum limits is negative advertising imo.
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Everytime I get asked this they cum in 10 minutes then leave. Twice is the fantasy, they don't hold back because they think they want to get the 1st out the way. Then realise they are done and leave sharpish, maybe a little embarrassed realising their appetite is bigger than their reality! Guaranteed EVERYTIME Easy money ;D
Absolutely agree.
I haven't done a detailed analysis on this :D but I would say 9/10 they say "can I cum twice?" as they're about to cum, I say "Sure!", they go for it, then they realise they haven't got another one in them.
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Absolutely agree.
I haven't done a detailed analysis on this :D but I would say 9/10 they say "can I cum twice?" as they're about to cum, I say "Sure!", they go for it, then they realise they haven't got another one in them.
I wish my clients did this but the 2 timers always overstay And struggle for the second cum and I’m left feeling like damn I deserved my hour fee for all that work.
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They can cum as often as they like in the time they have booked. I can't see why it's an issue.
Putting restrictions on cum limits is negative advertising imo.
Yes that's not a problem and I don't put limits on it. It's when that is the first question they ask when making a booking, sends up a little red flag, making it clear that that is their expectation.
Usually younger/newbies who think they have the whole 30 mins to cum twice and the showering, dressing etc will be in our time.
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They can cum as often as they like in the time they have booked. I can't see why it's an issue.
Putting restrictions on cum limits is negative advertising imo.
Totally agree with you. I tell all clients it is unlimited cum in the time you have booked. Have yet to meet a client who has got to 3. The vast majority are one fuck and they are done!
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I wish my clients did this but the 2 timers always overstay And struggle for the second cum and I’m left feeling like damn I deserved my hour fee for all that work.
Same! Most of the time find the second cim quite stressful and then literally anticlimactic when they don’t finish. Have to rush them out in the end in a sweaty mess. Not pleasant
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I used to say only once in 30m or twice in 60m, now I always say “you can cum as many times as you can in the time”, it’s usually only once or twice, sometimes a third in an hour or longer booking, although this rare ;)... it gets them going thinking they can cum & cum...you live & learn!! :angel:
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Totally agree with you. I tell all clients it is unlimited cum in the time you have booked. Have yet to meet a client who has got to 3. The vast majority are one fuck and they are done!
Same here, what they do in their 30 minutes is up to them, most of the time it is wishful thinking on their part that they can go more than once! Usually the 2 cum guys cum very quickly and easily the first time, have time to recover and then go again within their time limit.
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I just tell them they can come as many times as they want.
I do find that the guys who call and ask if they can come more than once often don’t show anyway.
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The ones that say "can I cum twice luv ?" Often either don't turn up or if they do cum then get dressed and go ..no 2nd round
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I only let them once in the half an hour cos I find the second one is just too much hard work, feels more work than in an hours booking
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It doesn’t bother me in the slightest as long as it’s within the paid time, and very often some guys just want to know that they can cum again even if they know they won’t, it’s psychological.
Now I grudge guys that want to come twice in a 15 min booking, they get a firm no if they ask!
What I will say is that if a man books half an hour and takes 20 mins to come the first time, then round 2 won’t even be attempted!
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My very first client asked this of me and it clearly was a thing with him because he asked me a second time. The flamin loser didn't even have a place to go to and I figured, well....this would be the last time I see him unless he gets a place. That was the last time I did a 30min booking also.
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Never allow that. If you do, most likely he won’t make his second time on time and will push as much as he can to extend and not pay for extra time as the second spunk is “just around the corner” ::)
This is more the reason why I don’t like this question...in my personal experience they don’t make the second time and I’m frantically tugging away whilst they’re like ‘I’m almost there’ when their time is up. I’m anxious that these clients will get pushy and try and stay an extra 5/10 minutes; and if there’s one type of client I can’t stand it’s those who overstay their welcome! The last client who overstayed their welcome and wouldn’t pay punched me in the face ::)
I find that most of my 30 min regs finish after 25 min, they like to chat and I always give at least around 15 min of oral and kissing. That’s 15 mins left for sex and a shower if they want it afterwards.
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Barbiegirl i feel like that too exactly what you wrote. I advertise myself as more a relaxed time with massage etc so going twice in 30 mins is not how i want to work. I charge an hour for this type of service and even that can make your wrist go numb on the 2nd pop if they reach there.
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I don't offer 30 minutes bookings with a minimum of an hour.
They can cum unlimited times when they ask me.
A few years ago I used to be like you tell me how many times you can cum. Or some times I respond with 50. :)
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I inwardly roll my eyes cos I know most needs an hour's break and after they've done the first one they're knackered. They can though if they can do it, although it's usually hard work. That's why I don't line doing hour bookings because the second one requires effort on my part and I'm lazy.
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I inwardly roll my eyes cos I know most needs an hour's break and after they've done the first one they're knackered. They can though if they can do it, although it's usually hard work. That's why I don't line doing hour bookings because the second one requires effort on my part and I'm lazy.
I don’t mind 2 cums with oral but I’m just not into penetrative sex and this is even in my real life! I think sex work has put me off sex for life, there is just nothing good about a penis going in and out of you UNLESS I am into the guy deeply then sex for the sake of it, is just shit!
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Yes that's not a problem and I don't put limits on it. It's when that is the first question they ask when making a booking, sends up a little red flag, making it clear that that is their expectation.
Usually younger/newbies who think they have the whole 30 mins to cum twice and the showering, dressing etc will be in our time.
You're right it is always a red flag. In my experience every guy asking this is a time waster for some reason.
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Everytime I get asked this they cum in 10 minutes then leave. Twice is the fantasy, they don't hold back because they think they want to get the 1st out the way. Then realise they are done and leave sharpish, maybe a little embarrassed realising their appetite is bigger than their reality! Guaranteed EVERYTIME Easy money ;D
This, have had a few guys with the half hour massage, thing is they ask for one off the bat and then later in the massage, Unless they are on the edge they take time to pop and then the build up for the 2nd one.... takes them close to the 1/2 hour. Ive had quite a few time extensions with the obvious increase in fee through it.
if you come across with the one pop per half hour in the advertising i find that it kinda puts off the guys.
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I was asked about 2 cums in a 15min booking!!! How's that for a piss take!?! I said it doesn't matter if you come in the first 2 mins, or it takes you 12 mins, I do not allow 2 comes in a 15 min. FFS. :FF :FF :FF
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Barbiegirl i feel like that too exactly what you wrote. I advertise myself as more a relaxed time with massage etc so going twice in 30 mins is not how i want to work. I charge an hour for this type of service and even that can make your wrist go numb on the 2nd pop if they reach there.
Exactly! It’s not that I’m being lazy, because I can work fucking hard! It’s that I advertise as a relaxed GFE, I’m friendly, not rushed and I will do plenty of foreplay and kissing. It’s more enjoyable for both. I don’t understand how you have a nice gfe in 30 mins going twice.
I had a booking the other day and he wanted to twice in 30 mins. He came in about 15 mins then wanted to go again, so I start oral but asks me to go straight into sex. 15 minutes of rough doggy with a floppy dick. Did he cum? Nope. I think that leaves the booking on a negative note as well. If this client booked 1 hour, he could have had time to rest for 5/10 minutes and let me give a proper blowjob to get him going again as he would have had about 30 minutes to go again. But he didn’t book 1 hour, because he was being a bit cheap ::)
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I don't understand limits on how many times by escorts, seems lile a cheeky money making scheme.
That said if a guy can cum twice in half an hour then good for them. But more than once I've had a client claim that they can, only for them to cum once and then the remaining twenty minutes is spent on me working them either with oral or my hand.
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I have only had this with my very first punter, looking back, I didn't understand why he emphasised it so hard, tbh he did come twice, now with more experience I understand that a bit more now but no one has asked me since. But I did recently have an experience that was like that, rushed, like he wanted to have as many orgasms as possible one after the other and do it all fucking. Zero foreplay, warm up or pleasure, it was disgusting.
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I honestly don't mind, however I will concede that it can ruin what is potentially a great booking - they finish the first time and then they can't manage the second time, I'm trying so hard for the remaining 20 minutes and end up going 5 mins over because I don't like to finish the booking like that, and they leave feeling disappointed and it puts a downer on an otherwise great booking. :FF
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When a punter asks me if he can do the deed more than once I say yes of course because not many can. After the first one is over they are done in. I do have a guy that's been to see me twice and he's done it 3 times in half an hour. I don't mind going overtime by 5 mins or so if I like them, but I agree, the ones who really wanna get that second one in are hard work. I do serious wrist action until my hand aches then tell them to do it themselves and I'll watch and chat dirty. 😄
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I don't understand limits on how many times by escorts, seems lile a cheeky money making scheme.
That said if a guy can cum twice in half an hour then good for them. But more than once I've had a client claim that they can, only for them to cum once and then the remaining twenty minutes is spent on me working them either with oral or my hand.
I don't think it's a cheeky money making scheme at all. It all depends how you advertise/market yourself. If you are promoting yourself in your written profile as all action/all services as Nymph that cannot get enough etc then i could see why a few might think they get all bang action for 30 mins. I advertise myself more on massage and sex as a relaxing time. Banging twice in a rushed period can like someone else said ruin the remainder of time as floppy knob/ hands nearly breaking off and more sweat everywhere is just not pleasant for me but each to there own of course.
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floppy knob/hands nearly breaking off and more sweat everywhere is just not pleasant
It certainly isn't but you can have all of that in any booking whether they eventually come once, twice, or not at all :).
Personally at £100 for 30 minutes I expect to graft for it, plus I honestly would have no idea how to tell a punter he has to leave if he comes within two minutes of walking through the door?
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It certainly isn't but you can have all of that in any booking whether they eventually come once, twice, or not at all :).
Personally at £100 for 30 minutes I expect to graft for it, plus I honestly would have no idea how to tell a punter he has to leave if he comes within two minutes of walking through the door?
You see i usually ask if they cum quick if they are like that i delay it for them and do not rush them to get them out quick but i usually do a 10 min massage to start off with so not many leave quick with me most get there full time. But even if they did cum quicker then expected i am happy to massage them to finish time but i just do not want to offer a twice cum unless there booking longer i make it clear though.
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A quickie guy wanted to know if he could cum twice in 15 mins. I said I can do £60 for 20 mins.
Bit cheeky though eh. As it is swallow plus anal.
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I don't specify 'how many times' allowed during a booking because I think that comes off as too restrictive, but when speaking to them I mention I prefer 'quality over quantity'. With the understanding that we have sufficient breaks between, so for 2cums in 30 minutes *it's a no from me, Simon Cowell voice*
If they are the sort of client that wants back-to-back constant stimulation then I suggest that they're better off buying a sex doll or a fleshlight with their money. ;D I say this because I once had a client cum, cum, cum, over and over and I found the whole thing repulsive and off-putting personally.
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Does anyone else cringe when they get asked this or is it just me? Why can’t you just pay for the hour? Most clients struggle to finish twice in one hour::)
When I offered 30 minutes, it was wild them asking. Since I provide an hour minimum, I rarely get asked. Usually, the ones who want to get their monies worth.
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Whenever anyone asks the dreaded "how many times can I come?"
I always say something along the lines of "well, let's put the onus on your for that as it's your body - You may cum as many times as you can physically manage, it isn't down to me" purely because they only end up being one-and-done kind of guys. I think they all fancy themselves as some kind of super spunky penis wizards ::)
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My standard reply is along the lines of "As many as you want/can within the time!" Most leave after they've cum but if they want to go again I won't say no; I'd be mortified to chuck them out if they paid me a £80 for half an hour and I chucked them out after 10 minutes- Dick Turpin wore a mask at least!
I understand it can make the booking hard work but the way I look at it as that I'm earning good money; and I will occasionally have to work hard for my fee. Whenever I start to feel a bit resentful of them I just remember the time when I was a student before escorting I worked my arse off at Nandos for a couple of pence over the national minimum wage- personally I found Nandos a lot harder than what I do now. X
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My standard reply is along the lines of "As many as you want/can within the time!" Most leave after they've cum but if they want to go again I won't say no; I'd be mortified to chuck them out if they paid me a £80 for half an hour and I chucked them out after 10 minutes- Dick Turpin wore a mask at least!
I understand it can make the booking hard work but the way I look at it as that I'm earning good money; and I will occasionally have to work hard for my fee. Whenever I start to feel a bit resentful of them I just remember the time when I was a student before escorting I worked my arse off at Nandos for a couple of pence over the national minimum wage- personally I found Nandos a lot harder than what I do now. X
I agree with this totally. Most can't manage it so I'll offer them a massage if that's the case. Some want to go first then have a massage for a ten min break hoping they'll be able to go again but they rarely can.
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Whenever anyone asks the dreaded "how many times can I come?"
I always say something along the lines of "well, let's put the onus on your for that as it's your body - You may cum as many times as you can physically manage, it isn't down to me" purely because they only end up being one-and-done kind of guys. I think they all fancy themselves as some kind of super spunky penis wizards ::)
People booking an hour never ask this, it is some weird kind of half hour fixation.
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People booking an hour never ask this, it is some weird kind of half hour fixation.
Absolutely agree! I can't think of a 1hr client who asked for this. (Although maybe they just assume?)
TBH, I find bookings with more sex and less chat to be the easiest. Sure they are more physically tiring, but i very rarely get them overrunning, whereas I have a horrible habit of chatting away and then finding I've gone over with clients that I click with.
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People booking an hour never ask this, it is some weird kind of half hour fixation.
The last person who booked an hour and asked me this made so sure he got his money's worth, it ruined what had been a very decent hour.
Loads of touchy/feely/kissy/oral both ways/2 sessions of sex including all 3 main positions both times/ naked body massage ( twice)..
It got to the moment of me saying how lovely it had been and getting up from the bed.. To him sulking how we had 4 minutes left and I had promised no "cum limits" :(
I obliged - smiling at first-but later told him to get on with it, I was so annoyed >:(
He had told me how previous Escorts had just made him leave after 5 minutes and charged extra for kissing/touching/sex.. Everything.. I was determined to change his opinion of us :-\
I get the point of it being an expensive hobby and he doesn't want to be ripped off, but I think that was just greedy for the sake of it.
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The last person who booked an hour and asked me this made so sure he got his money's worth, it ruined what had been a very decent hour.
Loads of touchy/feely/kissy/oral both ways/2 sessions of sex including all 3 main positions both times/ naked body massage ( twice)..
It got to the moment of me saying how lovely it had been and getting up from the bed.. To him sulking how we had 4 minutes left and I had promised no "cum limits" :(
I obliged - smiling at first-but later told him to get on with it, I was so annoyed >:(
He had told me how previous Escorts had just made him leave after 5 minutes and charged extra for kissing/touching/sex.. Everything.. I was determined to change his opinion of us :-\
I get the point of it being an expensive hobby and he doesn't want to be ripped off, but I think that was just greedy for the sake of it.
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When I hear this I flick them off and refuse the booking...cause they act like this.
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It got to the moment of me saying how lovely it had been and getting up from the bed.. To him sulking how we had 4 minutes left and I had promised no "cum limits" :(
Wow, I stand corrected, half hour asshats sometimes book hours too :FF Sorry you had to deal with that, I doubt I would have been so polite and would have definitely taken much joy at stopping as soon as that hour was up and let him sulk with his ridiculous half mast as he is walking out. I hate pouty tossers.
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Sulky tossers such a turn off. Most guys would have enjoyed the time with you.
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Wow, I stand corrected, half hour asshats sometimes book hours too :FF Sorry you had to deal with that, I doubt I would have been so polite and would have definitely taken much joy at stopping as soon as that hour was up and let him sulk with his ridiculous half mast as he is walking out. I hate pouty tossers.
Yes, that's what I engineered in the end >:D
I knew that my pre-set alarm would go offphone would ring at the end of those 4 minutes, so I faffed about with condoms/searching high and low for my fresh lube/"hmm, did I leave it in the bathroom earlier?" etc, etc..
He got the quickest of rides before I heaved away from him to 'answer my phone', thus terminating the booking and leaving him 'high and dry' (good - greedy bastard)
As someone said earlier, these types are thankfully rare and the other side of the coin to the majority who are happy to book an hour, even though they know they don't need or want all that time really ;).
*I have a cunning plan to claim I only have 2 condoms with me if I get this type again 8)*
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*I have a cunning plan to claim I only have 2 condoms with me if I get this type again 8)*
I'd just say no & let those last 4 minutes be about him showering & dressing. Twice in 1 hour & 2 massages is very generous of you.
I had a massage client ask to cum twice in a 30 minute session. Making out he had PE on the phone; "it's been a long time I may pop as soon as you touch me" OK not a problem you get your full 30 minutes with massage first, so don't worry but if it's 5 minutes left towards the end it will be a one shot only climax. I made a point to say, for transparency. So he asks 5 minutes towards the end if he can go again if he pops now. I made sure he didn't because he had clearly lied on the phone, he knew what he was doing. I offered for him to extend the booking though out of courtesy but he declined funnily enough. He wont be coming back either.