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ParisB

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Re: Black clients
« Reply #30 on: 11 August 2011, 04:04:44 am »
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I won't see guys who have what I call the ali g type of talk they can be white black or asian but if they talk like ali g I aint there julie init 

Amber Sweetpetite

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Re: Black clients
« Reply #31 on: 11 August 2011, 08:24:55 am »
I will see any client who comes across on the phone as an ok guy and is respectful and clean. I saw a lovely guy last week who was black. He didn't tell me but there were clues in his handle on AW and the feedback he had. He had a MASSIVE cock lol! But he was very very lovely.

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Re: Black clients
« Reply #32 on: 11 August 2011, 10:53:41 am »
I've got a regular who is black and he is very posh and always wears a suit etc. I also have a regular who is white and he speaks like Ali G and dresses like him too but he's a nice and respectful guy (just obviously not the most educated).
If someone phones me and they have a chavvy accent but seem polite, friendly and understand my boundaries then I don't have a problem. If they phone and are all, "how much for a quickie babe? can you be ready in 2 minutes? do you do bareback?" etc then they most definitely wont get a booking.

Every asian client I've had apart from one has been a disrespectful pain in the ass so I'm really wary of them now and can usually pick up on their accent when they call to book. It's a shame that I feel I cant trust them now as my ex was asian and totally lovely so I'm sure I'm stereotyping them all uneccesarily

Nikkita

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Re: Black clients
« Reply #33 on: 11 August 2011, 04:32:19 pm »
I don't see black clients anymore due to a lot of bad experiences,even with Asian clients I'm very reluctant to see them due to their attitude and always trying to take the piss , but outside of work my weakness iv only ever really dated black\ mixed race guys.

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Re: Black clients
« Reply #34 on: 11 August 2011, 05:51:29 pm »
i will not see any one with a strong foreign accent, I will see any race as long as they are clean and respectful
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Re: Black clients
« Reply #35 on: 11 August 2011, 06:36:53 pm »
Right? What about the ones who send (in text-speak) a text at 12:00 am, requesting a booking then and there. No preamble, no introduction, just illiteracy and greediness...

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Re: Black clients
« Reply #36 on: 27 September 2011, 06:16:07 am »
[btw...I think that this is completely irrelevant practically for most of you, as you are in the UK...but just a from a different note...]


Most US escorts won't see black men...or...maybe not true...will not see black men who do not work in office buildings in suits...because of experiences in which a black client has either attempt to become "management" or attempt to underpay.

I think in the US race is so ingrained in culture. I just don't get/cannot relate to/connect with African American culture.

I tried to work at a strip club that predominantly had black clients. I quit after a week... it just didn't work. I couldn't read class (aka who had money); I had no idea how to talk to/approach most of the customers. My approached didn't work. My dancing didn't work. I just didn't know how to read or take control of anything.

By the last day, I was basically just approaching the guys who dressed and acted white and the minority of white/Asian/Hispanic customers in the club.

My mom's fam is WASPY. My dad's family is middle eastern blue-collar Christian (and very misogynistic...just went to a wedding last weekend...re the Asian thread...I understand what you mean... I think in certain cultures it is a very different way of playing into male fantasy and at the same time taking and maintaining control. I think if you went and lived with a ME or Asian family for a year, you'd realize that it's not men-power/female-disempowered...it's just completely different)

So I take white collar anyone, and hispanic/asian/indian/middle-eastern white not-white collar.

I think it's for me, and maybe for other people, knowing that my range of work personas will click with a client/an understanding of what they want/an ability to relate?

Different cultures have different interaction styles and different conceptions of gender roles (which I don't necessarily think translates into power or not power, but just different ways of asserting power)...and all of this is magnified in sexuality...

I really do believe that the type of "attraction" to clients in any type of sex work involves an ability to relate/understand the client and feel in control, all of which takes an amount of cultural fluency.

Cultural literacy is a good thing to want to learn, but certainly not in a situation like this!

 
 


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Re: Black clients
« Reply #37 on: 27 September 2011, 07:58:43 am »
Apologies but I personally have had enough of this, what with the Asian client thread still fresh. This could've died a natural death and I'm not sure why it was resurrected  six weeks later. This is an ecumenical forum. Unless somebody starts a thread specifically on white clients to even things out this one is done.