Author Topic: Thank you Saafe (Read 1449 times)

Carolynfeline · « **on:** 04 March 2015, 06:57:33 pm »

I just wanted to say thank you. I realized how much better it feels to have a place like a community to go to from time to time as this occupation (no matter if part-time or full-time) can be quite isolating sometimes.
Maybe you also want to mention in which way Saafe has helped you.
I believe in general it has given me the confidence that I am not the only one who is enjoying this job and that it doesn't mean that's all you want to do with your life. There are many very intelligent and witty ladies on here who don't do it because they have no other choice (men think that sometimes).
It is indeed difficult to talk to anyone about this job and it can become a psychological burden from time to time.
So if things become a bit overwhelming, I read through the forum and even if I don't know anyone here in person,
i feel better just because there are some people who deal with the same sh**. I wish I had known this place long ago when I started escorting. Things would have been so much easier.

Miss K xXx · « **Reply #1 on:** 04 March 2015, 07:45:58 pm »

Once I weed out all the morons, bad guys and timewasters, 9 times out of 10.....nothing but complete gentleman walk through my door so therefor I am very happy in my job and don't feel like I need SAAFE or anyone for support on that because I'm genuinely happy.

But it's the downside of the job that brings me here. If I didn't have a place to go to vent and rant and rave when I've had the occasional bad meeting or bad client, clients who have awful personal hygiene or all the idiots that I deal with daily in emails and on the phone then I think I would go mad and it's nice to know that it's not just me having to deal with such undesirables.

The job is very isolating particularly if none of your family or friends know what you do so its good to have others to chat to about this secret life.

xx

Fabulassie · « **Reply #2 on:** 04 March 2015, 07:47:57 pm »

Without this site, I'd be lost. I had no idea how to start work in this country and when I first started posting befuddled questions, a lovely WG local to me took me under her wing. She helped me figure out AW, rented me a room in her flat, and that got me started.

And God knows I would have never attempted touring without this forum!

So, that's been great from a practical POV.

Emotionally, the support here has been fantastic. Absolutely brilliant.

And you ladies do help me pass the time!

Ieaio · « **Reply #3 on:** 04 March 2015, 08:34:21 pm »

I thank saafe for allowing me to give a better service, learning the ropes & literally keep me safe too.

You took the words right out my mouth i'm always gushing about saafe

My boyfriend is super supportive but when he's had enough of my jibber jabber (you know that vacant i'm not listening anymore but pretending to, look haha) it's nice to turn to girls who are doing the same as me. We're just like high fiving each other with tips all the time it's lovley.

It's like a handbook because of course there is no handbook to escorting. It's nice to know that this job is NORMAL when so many people are telling us it's not.

eatmeplease · « **Reply #4 on:** 06 March 2015, 09:24:24 pm »

Do you know Carolynfeline I was thinking the other day of writing on here ...Really just to say Thankyou for such a wonderful site ..So thanks for starting a post off

xx I'd like to say ...
I've been escorting for a while now and I absolutely love it ..being my own boss and no one to answer to Etc ..
But it does get lonely at times as I don't have anyone I can talk to about work,even though I have a wonderful husband I don't want to sit and discuss problems about clients or escorting in general as I don't think it right ,don't get me wrong there have been times when I have discussed the odd difficult client that I don't want to see any more ..
I like to look at this site and the girls & guys on here as my friends even though I don't know any of you I feel like it's a place where I can come and made to feel welcome and at home x
So Thankyou all and when I post my problems thanks for reading and replying it helps to know there is someone else out there listening and helping xxx
Thanks xx

Sassy Slapper · « **Reply #5 on:** 06 March 2015, 09:49:51 pm »

Its nice to have somewhere where you know everyone is dealing with the same issues as you.

I do know that if I had discovered saafe before I discovered parlours then I probably would never have started in the parlours or at least not restarted when I came back to his after a 4 year break. One read of this website and you basically have all the tools at hand to be able to set up independently which is fantastic.

It IS an excellent resource

ScarletWoman · « **Reply #6 on:** 07 March 2015, 08:15:52 am »

Its invaluable.

Its a community. It makes me feel part of something rather than alone, a shadow in the eyes of most society. We can share the good and bad about our day. I come here when I'm bored, down or whatever.
Ive laughed, winced, gagged and cried with laughter at some of the blather and babble stories. When a guy stuffs his balls into a condom or leaves a skid on the bed, I cant wait to get on here and vent.
Ive searched and found answers to loads of queries I have wondered.
Ive shared and benefitted from warnings on here..saving me from a couple of bad ones and discovering others have had same problems with some of my bad experience clients.
I met my best friend on here.

Dont ever shut down!

Siorse · « **Reply #7 on:** 07 March 2015, 12:40:13 pm »

Totally agree.. Saafe has kept me sane on days when I was about to loose it, made me give myself a kick up the arse when
I couldn't face working, helped me (thanks to all the members), in many ways when I was stuck, had a problem, a question,
or just needed to vent..
Saafe has been a life-saver for me on many occasions, and I'd like to thank all the members, and especially all the moderators
etc., who make it possible for us to have this place to come to!

Gawd I'm getting soppy in my old age

Dani · « **Reply #8 on:** 07 March 2015, 07:02:23 pm »

Saafe for me was a God send as I did not have a clue when I started this job. The Saafe website has so much good advice and really helped me change the way I worked (I had no security set up at all when I started)

The forum is also good when you need to vent to someone but as you work alone don't really have anyone who would understand how you feel. My partner is great but he cant understand the negative feelings we sometimes have about this job.

I also like that we can offer advice to new starters on things we have picked up along the way that have helped us so that we can hopefully help them to not make the mistakes we have made and perhaps saved them from making a decision that leads to dangerous bookings.

It sounds strange but I actually feel helping a new starter is more rewarding than the actual job sometimes. Being able to help someone else is a great feeling and can make you feel good for days

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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Carolynfeline

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Miss K xXx

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Fabulassie

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Ieaio

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eatmeplease

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