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Reni

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1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« on: 02 October 2014, 08:39:26 pm »
So today I have been busy with longer lengths bookings, haven't been able to answer my phone much. One guy called me 33 times and messaged asking me to ring him when I was free to talk twice. Now it states on my profile the best way to get in touch if I don't answer is to email me, this guy ignores it.
This obsessive behaviour really scares me. I know who he is as I used to see him years ago when I used to work for an agency and he was a very 'easy' client, but this action has now made me want to ban him, what does anyone else think?
I ask because when this happened a few months ago and one guy rang me 26 times (named in phonebook) in one day I refused to see him.
Do I just make it clear it's not acceptable and see him as he will turn into a regular again or just refuse him on principle as he will probably just be a half hour appointment guy and not much of a loss?

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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #1 on: 02 October 2014, 09:02:23 pm »
Rai It's excessive  desperate

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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #2 on: 02 October 2014, 10:24:31 pm »
Sorry but I find those who call 5 times in 30 minutes excessive, this guy sound like a complete nightmare.

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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #3 on: 03 October 2014, 12:28:49 am »
Ignore and block immediately! Obsessive behaviour like this is madness and totally unacceptable.
Had an ex boyfriend a few years back who did exactly the same. "Ex" is the best way to describe anyone who feels the need to do this - whether it is punter or boyfriend - they will eventually give up on you and move on to someone else. They will only stop when they get want they want, until the next time....

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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #4 on: 03 October 2014, 08:57:20 am »
Thanks girls you've confirmed my suspicions. Woke up this morning to a few more calls from him. Problem is as I use a cheap old Nokia it doesn't have block feature... So he is literally draining my phone battery.

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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #5 on: 03 October 2014, 10:37:18 am »
I woke up to 15 missed calls from the same number this morning...like you say you immediately think WTF?? I will be blocking my mystery caller.

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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #6 on: 03 October 2014, 08:24:54 pm »
I hate this.  Its basically a case of I don't care if you are busy you should answer the phone to me as I think I am special
If someone rings more than three times in a one hour period I block them.  I clearly state if I don't answer try again an hour later as I am probably in a booking or text or email me instead.  I tell them not to keep ringing but when they do I just block them.
I hate this because it shows me they really don't give a shit that I might be busy and that they think they are so important they will keep ringing until I get pissed off and leave a client to answer the phone to them  (I never have as leave phone in another room).  I just imagine how needy they would eb in an actual booking if they are that needy over a phone call.  I would prefer not to find out so just block them immediately
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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #7 on: 03 October 2014, 08:44:30 pm »
Absolutely Dani it just shows they have no respect for me.
Well today he rang from a different number. I recognised his voice immediately and asked him what he thought he was playing at ringing me like a loony. Of course he apologised. I told him not to call again as I did not feel comfortable seeing him anymore.
Lets hope he stops now.  :-\

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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #8 on: 03 October 2014, 08:46:35 pm »
I also don't keep the phone in the same room when I'm with a client and leave it on quiet mode so yesterday all that ringing drained my battery!

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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #9 on: 05 October 2014, 12:30:07 am »
He sounds like a stalker waiting to happen.....

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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #10 on: 06 October 2014, 11:38:16 am »
I woke up to at least 10 calls from the same number this morning. He's blocked from being a nob in the past but my blocking app tells me what's been blocked. Don't these guys know how to find another girl?!
We're women, it's what we do. I just get paid for it.

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Re: 1 day, 1 client, 2 text messages, 33 missed calls!
« Reply #11 on: 07 October 2014, 08:13:32 am »
When I answer the phone to let a client in, before I head to the door, I turn the volume down on my phone (not off - because if I forget to put it back on after the booking at least the buzzing will alert me) and then I put it on its charger in another room. I can't hear the buzzing from the bedroom.

I haven't really had anyone call obsessively like that but if I did I would treat it like any other red flag and avoid. The good clients are the ones that blur together with all the other good ones - being unusual is a bad thing.