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amy

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #30 on: 17 April 2014, 01:19:23 pm »
Quote from: AliceRed on 16 April 2014, 09:42:53 pm
I've not had a chance to do an overnight yet but would love to, the money is attractive enough to me. ;D Plus I can get by on such little sleep, staying awake & alert would be a doddle.

I rarely sleep for more than about four or five hours, but there's a difference between being alone and able to do your own thing and being bored shitless and unable to sleep even if you want to but equally unable to do anything bar lie there pretending for fear of disturbing the random stranger next to you.

I used to only take them with people I'd met before anyway after a handful of horrendous ones (one so bad I had to take a week off afterwards before I felt like myself again :() but I took them off my ads a while back and nothing on God's earth would tempt me to do another one now. Like others above, I've got about a three hour best-behaviour limit and since an overnight means two full days or even three of doing no other bookings, the money isn't worth it to me.
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Jenny 2

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #31 on: 17 April 2014, 02:38:12 pm »
Have done three in my time and never, ever again!

First one in my early days.........  he had too much to drink and spent a few hours being ill.............. yes no fun for me........... (stop laughing you lot!) especially as I had to play nurse and look after him (and it wasn't an agreed roleplay!)

Second one, he wanted me to perform non stop, and it wasn't just lying back and thinking of next day's food shop, he wanted me to dominate and as those of you that offer domination will know, it's bloody tiring!  He wanted me to carry on through the night.............. groan.............

Third one - he was in his 70's so I thought would be a piece of cake...I knew him well and had had two/three hour bookings with him which were fairly easy......... so that night we had a meal and some time out, got back to hotel at near on 1am......... and I don't know if he got some second wind or had taken some viagra or something  but it went on till 5 am!  He wouldn't let me sleep and I was so bloody tired!  He kept prodding me and pestering me and eventually I turned over and pretended to sleep....... I think he nodded off for a bit but started again at 7 am!  So I had about two hours sleep if that!

Hence my resolution, never again.....!

Jenny x
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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #32 on: 17 April 2014, 06:02:59 pm »
Quote from: amy on 17 April 2014, 01:19:23 pm
Quote from: AliceRed on 16 April 2014, 09:42:53 pm
I've not had a chance to do an overnight yet but would love to, the money is attractive enough to me. ;D Plus I can get by on such little sleep, staying awake & alert would be a doddle.

I rarely sleep for more than about four or five hours, but there's a difference between being alone and able to do your own thing and being bored shitless and unable to sleep even if you want to but equally unable to do anything bar lie there pretending for fear of disturbing the random stranger next to you.


I have a sleep disorder, I don't mean I just stay up late often. There are nights I am lying awake in bed staring at the ceiling and doing literally nothing, even when I am exhausted and want to sleep. It's like I'm hardwired to lie in bed next to a stranger all night for money! Haha.
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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #33 on: 17 April 2014, 07:55:35 pm »
Quote from: Jenny 2 on 17 April 2014, 02:38:12 pm
Have done three in my time and never, ever again!

First one in my early days.........  he had too much to drink and spent a few hours being ill.............. yes no fun for me........... (stop laughing you lot!) especially as I had to play nurse and look after him (and it wasn't an agreed roleplay!)

Second one, he wanted me to perform non stop, and it wasn't just lying back and thinking of next day's food shop, he wanted me to dominate and as those of you that offer domination will know, it's bloody tiring!  He wanted me to carry on through the night.............. groan.............

Third one - he was in his 70's so I thought would be a piece of cake...I knew him well and had had two/three hour bookings with him which were fairly easy......... so that night we had a meal and some time out, got back to hotel at near on 1am......... and I don't know if he got some second wind or had taken some viagra or something  but it went on till 5 am!  He wouldn't let me sleep and I was so bloody tired!  He kept prodding me and pestering me and eventually I turned over and pretended to sleep....... I think he nodded off for a bit but started again at 7 am!  So I had about two hours sleep if that!

Hence my resolution, never again.....!

Jenny x

I thought the same with a 70 year old over night my nightmare hadn't realised. But at least know now they tend to not need much sleep as they nap through the day. If only I thought of this before. Also had a few hours sleep he wanted fun I wasn't impressed. Professional went out the window as felt to tired.

With over nights many will experience clients don't care about if your tired as it is all about them. Only they think because they are paying. But I don't agree with this. I think clients can take advantage.

So if you don't mind being sleep deprived over nights suit.
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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #34 on: 17 April 2014, 09:14:27 pm »
I have learned from the experience that now i always ask them what kinda overnight they are looking for
and what time we would be going to sleep.

If he says "Party all night" or "Sex all night", i deny or offer them a extreme overpriced overnight,
they soon loose interest anyways when i tell them i do not drink or take drugs

i explain that i need sleep in these bookings.
I only accept overnights from guys who are happy with me going to bed at latest 2-3am
Or if going clubbing maximum 4am and going to cost extra

My first overnight bookings were great but soon i got some horrible overnights with coke heads, sex maniacs or plain weirdos, never again! :)
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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #35 on: 23 April 2014, 07:28:29 am »
I have a weekend booking in a few weeks fri to mon

I've seen the client many times and he is a real sweetie
He's planned loads of things to do as it's his birthday so not a shagathon weekend  but I'm still apprehensive of a long weekend

Luckily the hotel is only 5, mins from my working flat so I've asked him if minds each morning I just go there for 30 mins just to grab  new clothes,  before breakfast  and he is fine with this

If he wasn't I would be seriously rethinking the whole weekend
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ParisB

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #36 on: 23 April 2014, 07:34:53 am »
Thinking about overnights / long weekends pricing

What would/ do you  you charge for a weekend booking
Fri 4pm till -  Mon12 midday


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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #37 on: 23 April 2014, 07:37:21 am »
Quote from: ParisB on 23 April 2014, 07:34:53 am
Thinking about overnights / long weekends pricing

What would/ do you  you charge for a weekend booking
Fri 4pm till -  Mon12 midday

I think I'd charge 3 x overnight rate.
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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #38 on: 24 April 2014, 01:44:13 pm »
No amount of money could compensate for the amount I'd hate to do an overnight. I only like sharing a bed with a boyfriend as I find it way too intimate to be done with clients. I often don't sleep well unless I'm on my own anyway and I'm grumpy when tired. Plus I couldn't tolerate being poked and prodded by someone I didn't love or lust after for any more than 4 hours, and usually I've had enough within 2. I get to the stage I feel like telling them to get their fucking hands off me because I'm touched out. 3 hour bookings are usually challenging enough. I don't have a high sex drive and that coupled with not fancying 99.9% of clients mean I simply don't want the amount of sex expected on an overnight, and there's a limit to how long I can keep up my sunny professional persona with most clients unfortunately. As an introvert I find having to entertain people draining after a while.

The only way I'd consider it is if I charged a ridiculously high fee and was desperate for the cash, if I'd seen the client for over 2 hours and didn't want to tell him to eff off afterwards, and with the following rules:
Lights out by midnight (preferably 11pm as I'm tired by then).
Hands off me whilst I sleep for 7-8 hours. No snuggling up or breathing on my neck.
If you snore I'm allowed to put the pillow over your face.
Sex maximum of 3 times; once before dinner, once afterwards and once in the morning. Preferably quick.
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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #39 on: 24 April 2014, 02:49:42 pm »
Quote from: PoshTotty on 24 April 2014, 01:44:13 pm
No amount of money could compensate for the amount I'd hate to do an overnight. I only like sharing a bed with a boyfriend as I find it way too intimate to be done with clients. I often don't sleep well unless I'm on my own anyway and I'm grumpy when tired. Plus I couldn't tolerate being poked and prodded by someone I didn't love or lust after for any more than 4 hours, and usually I've had enough within 2. I get to the stage I feel like telling them to get their fucking hands off me because I'm touched out. 3 hour bookings are usually challenging enough. I don't have a high sex drive and that coupled with not fancying 99.9% of clients mean I simply don't want the amount of sex expected on an overnight, and there's a limit to how long I can keep up my sunny professional persona with most clients unfortunately. As an introvert I find having to entertain people draining after a while.

The only way I'd consider it is if I charged a ridiculously high fee and was desperate for the cash, if I'd seen the client for over 2 hours and didn't want to tell him to eff off afterwards, and with the following rules:
Lights out by midnight (preferably 11pm as I'm tired by then).
Hands off me whilst I sleep for 7-8 hours. No snuggling up or breathing on my neck.
If you snore I'm allowed to put the pillow over your face.
Sex maximum of 3 times; once before dinner, once afterwards and once in the morning. Preferably quick.
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Oh Posh that so made me chuckle! 
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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #40 on: 24 April 2014, 03:57:17 pm »
Quote from: Jenny 2 on 24 April 2014, 02:49:42 pm
Oh Posh that so made me chuckle!
I was being serious though ;D However, I am a bit tired today as my lovely but very snorey boyfriend stayed over last night and kept me awake. At least I didn't smother him with the pillow I suppose (give it time though ;))
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