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AliceRed

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Re: [Cultural barriers and language barriers with] Foreign Clients!
« Reply #15 on: 22 April 2014, 05:28:21 pm »
I've not come across a foreign client yet, but my Rule would be: if we can comfortably have a conversation on the phone, understand each other, and agree on the fees & services involved in a booking, then I'm willing to see them.

Which is the exact same rule with clients for whom English is their first language! Haha. So many local guys who phone and barely speak, pretend not to know what my fees are, struggle with being told "no", etc.  :FF  I need to know that a client - wherever he's from, whatever his first language is - understands my services and boundaries before I see him in private.

Dani

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Re: [Cultural barriers and language barriers with] Foreign Clients!
« Reply #16 on: 22 April 2014, 06:54:01 pm »
I wont see anyone who cannot understand a simple sentence or who I cannot understand.  I even refuse deaf people who don't do BSL as communication would be impossible with them
The one time I broke this rule was New Years eve when I saw a deaf client who did not know BSL and I ended up rather badly beaten up

I see a lot fo men who do not speak English as  first language but they can speak enough to understand and be understood
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Re: [Cultural barriers and language barriers with] Foreign Clients!
« Reply #17 on: 22 April 2014, 09:59:45 pm »
I too don't mind an accent but I wouldn't see someone who I could not clearly understand and who couldn't understand me.

This doesn't just go for someone with a language barrier but also someone who is deaf or has some type of learning disability, I have nothing against them I just would be worried about not being able to communicate with them properly.

Pink~Princess

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Re: [Cultural barriers and language barriers with] Foreign Clients!
« Reply #18 on: 22 April 2014, 11:51:37 pm »
Chrissie, yes I am the same.

Dani, I am really sorry to hear that happened to you. I once had a deaf client give me all sorts of abuse via email and text because I wouldn't see him as he took massive offence (even although I was very polite and sensitive about the whole thing as I didn't want to upset him) saying I was discriminating because of his disability, made me feel really bad but it was really because I need to speak to someone and understand them before inviting them into my home.

I suggested he visited a parlour or an agency but he hold me to go fuck myself.

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Re: [Cultural barriers and language barriers with] Foreign Clients!
« Reply #19 on: 23 April 2014, 12:09:42 am »
I'd find it very awkward being with a client who couldn't really speak English.  Just me, but I don't want misunderstandings.  I always insist on speaking to them on the phone before accepting the booking, which I'd decline if I couldn't really understand what they're saying.

I am the same, I need to know that they understand me and I understand them, then there is no confusion over something that they may expect to happen that I am not happy with.

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Re: [Cultural barriers and language barriers with] Foreign Clients!
« Reply #20 on: 23 April 2014, 12:12:41 am »
Well till today I didnt let poor English get in the way if I could manage to get the guy to my door via the directions and a multitude of amusing phone conversations but after the one who turned up today I have finally had enough. Poor english means no booking. I told  him   he had to be clean, he had asked for sucking without a condom, he said yes yes when I said clean, very clean penis, he arrived and he absolutely stunk to high freaking heaven. I have never ever smelt a smell like it, as if he was smeared with extreme BV and sour piss. He either didnt understand what I meant or he calls that clean, either way, he want getting in. From now on only people with a certain level of English are going to be allowed bookings because at least that way I know they understand me when I say they have to be clean. I have had enough with poor english speakers, there is always some sort of issue.

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Re: [Cultural barriers and language barriers with] Foreign Clients!
« Reply #21 on: 23 April 2014, 08:08:42 am »
See that's absolutely vile, how can anyone turn up in that state whether they understand you asking them to be clean or not. Turning up filthy a one thing, expecting you to put your mouth around their sour pissy dick is so thoughtless and rude it's unbelievable.

If I was spending that kinda money on an intimate service like that, I'd make sure I was spotless so the escort was happy and comfortable around me to be able to relax and not hold back. But then I'd be spotless anyway as it's standard personal hygiene FFS!

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Re: [Cultural barriers and language barriers with] Foreign Clients!
« Reply #22 on: 23 April 2014, 11:48:49 am »
I had a lovely man from Burma whose spoken English wasn't very confident but read and understood well enough to know what reply to attempt, it made for a quieter booking during the act but one without misunderstandings. So far my only experience of a foreign client and hope to keep them positive wherever the guy is from  ;D

Luscious Leah

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Re: [Cultural barriers and language barriers with] Foreign Clients!
« Reply #23 on: 23 April 2014, 04:40:52 pm »

I can see the complications with foreign clients in not being able to communicate with them but...I had a booking in Spain last week, with a guy whom I had cammed with for 2 years, plus fairly regular email contact.
It wasn't until I met him that I realised that other than hello, how are you, he didn't speak a word of English and my Espanol is limited...He was a great guy, we had fun trying to communicate and the language of lust is universal so I never say never...  ;)

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Re: [Cultural barriers and language barriers with] Foreign Clients!
« Reply #24 on: 24 April 2014, 08:38:15 am »
I've had a few who literally cannot communicate with me (cue lots of gesticulating on my part) and a load that can barely communicate.
To be honest I don't really mind either, with the latter I just talk at them for like 20mins with no reply, but whatever it's easier than some jobs
And the ones who can't communicate at all don't tend to hang around after so fine by me

ETA I work for an agency so don't talk on the phone

Also it's not always that hard to communicate if you will or won't do something they want without words, I've always gotten by so far
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