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Amberrr

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #15 on: 17 May 2012, 11:33:04 am »
I got it once or twice at the beginning and made me wonder. I'm better than what? Than the way you're treating me? If we met at the dorchester and you paid me triple what you did, would you still be saying this? Which part am I actually better than? I still don't understand to be honest.

bananamuffin

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #16 on: 17 May 2012, 12:24:36 pm »
And the fact that they have come to have sex with a prostitute doesn't even seem to factor into their thinking or strike them as to how stupid their comment was when they take that into account!! Men - wish we could conveniently compartmentalise our thought processes like they do lol!!! Mental.

curvygrace

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #17 on: 17 May 2012, 06:45:13 pm »


If he felt so strongly that you shouldn't be doing it, he wouldn't be seeing you  ::)

indeed! hypocrite!


Emily Bolton

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #18 on: 04 June 2012, 08:47:01 pm »
i have told one of my male friends that im doing this now and at first he seemed fine about it, then cue a few hours later him getting drunk and telling me "you are better than that"

then it became "if you can have sex with strangers for money then do it with me for free"

oh dear. x

lili69

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #19 on: 04 June 2012, 08:52:17 pm »
Cue this morning's comment from client "you're too nice to be doing this".  I couldn't even be bothered to reply, I just smiled sweetly and said nothing. 

Really, why I am too nice to be paid ?600 for me to sit in a bar with you and have a glass of wine, to go back to the room and you to have a wank and then for me to sleep for 7 hours?  I think that's being treated pretty well, thanks very much!  ;D

Emily Bolton

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #20 on: 04 June 2012, 08:54:13 pm »
Cue this morning's comment from client "you're too nice to be doing this".  I couldn't even be bothered to reply, I just smiled sweetly and said nothing. 

Really, why I am too nice to be paid ?600 for me to sit in a bar with you and have a glass of wine, to go back to the room and you to have a wank and then for me to sleep for 7 hours?  I think that's being treated pretty well, thanks very much!  ;D

to be fair, ive never had a boyfriend treat me half as good as that!

maybe im missing out by saying no to overnighters x

lili69

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #21 on: 04 June 2012, 08:59:19 pm »
Cue this morning's comment from client "you're too nice to be doing this".  I couldn't even be bothered to reply, I just smiled sweetly and said nothing. 

Really, why I am too nice to be paid ?600 for me to sit in a bar with you and have a glass of wine, to go back to the room and you to have a wank and then for me to sleep for 7 hours?  I think that's being treated pretty well, thanks very much!  ;D

to be fair, ive never had a boyfriend treat me half as good as that!

maybe im missing out by saying no to overnighters x

Half the reason I decided to try escorting (apart from being totally skint) was because I was getting sick of dates treating me like I thought an escort would be treated - i.e. I paid for dinner/drinks therefore you owe me sex.  Since starting escorting 99% of the time I am treated with far more kindness and respect than I ever was by dates!!!  Wish I'd have cottoned on to this years ago...!!

Emily Bolton

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #22 on: 04 June 2012, 09:06:38 pm »
Cue this morning's comment from client "you're too nice to be doing this".  I couldn't even be bothered to reply, I just smiled sweetly and said nothing. 

Really, why I am too nice to be paid ?600 for me to sit in a bar with you and have a glass of wine, to go back to the room and you to have a wank and then for me to sleep for 7 hours?  I think that's being treated pretty well, thanks very much!  ;D

to be fair, ive never had a boyfriend treat me half as good as that!

maybe im missing out by saying no to overnighters x

Half the reason I decided to try escorting (apart from being totally skint) was because I was getting sick of dates treating me like I thought an escort would be treated - i.e. I paid for dinner/drinks therefore you owe me sex.  Since starting escorting 99% of the time I am treated with far more kindness and respect than I ever was by dates!!!  Wish I'd have cottoned on to this years ago...!!

yeah, me too. also, why get drunk and sleep with strangers when you can get paid for it if you do it sober? x

blondieMK

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #23 on: 04 June 2012, 11:12:29 pm »
Yeah this winds me up. I get the 'so do you enjoy your job? It pays the bills I guess'  :FF
Of COURSE it pays the bills, but don't think for one minute I'm on my knees sucking your sorry cock to pay my frigging electric bill. I hate the stigma. Working girls are poor/desperate/feeding a habit. GRRR. Do they not realise that actually we invest our effing money. Lol.
Pheww... x
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