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lili69

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"You're better than all this"
« on: 01 May 2012, 09:31:07 pm »
Does it ever bug anyone when they are told that they are too good to be a WG - "you're better than this".

I have a regular client who says this and its really starting to bug me - I think I'm doing pretty darn well, thank you very much.  Who out of the pair of us gets paid a lot of money to be taken out to fancy dinners and do things that they really enjoy.... and who is the one who is paying for it...?

Hope you ladies don't mind me having a bit of a whinge tonight.... I need a shoulder to cry on!

Thanks girls
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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #1 on: 01 May 2012, 09:36:07 pm »
For me, one of the worst types of clients are those who feel that I need 'saving'! So I can completely sympathise with you lili69 :)

If he felt so strongly that you shouldn't be doing it, he wouldn't be seeing you  ::)

..Some would say I am selling my body but I know I am selling so much more than that..

lili69

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #2 on: 01 May 2012, 09:39:14 pm »
I suppose its a bit of envy too - most guys would give their left wotsit to do what we do!!!  Being paid for having fun and having sex!  WOO HOO

thanks for your reply  xx :)

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #3 on: 01 May 2012, 11:48:21 pm »
Ahhhhhhh I hate this too! I'm always thinking stop being so bloody narrow minded just because I'm selling sex I'm doing fantastic thanks!

Liverbird

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #4 on: 02 May 2012, 12:19:58 am »
When you read about this vile, odious, coward who's opinion of women is lower than the crap on the crap of the crap on his big boots, then I reckon we should all heave a great big sigh of relief that this slime-toad hasn't knocked on 'our' doors!
 Check this w***ker out! Recent quote as follows...
'Rush Limbaugh apologized for calling student Sandra Fluke a 'slut' for her views on contraception. His offensive remarks revealed an old double standard on sex: Only a 'coed' ? that is, a female ? can be promiscuous. The rest of us males are just taking what?s rightfully ours.'
Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat????? Oh, btw, he's been married four times, no children.....

Wiley (in helpless but angry mode)xx


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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #5 on: 02 May 2012, 01:00:24 am »
Ughhhhh wileycoyote that actually turned my stomache !!!!

What an idiot eh? what id love to do to that man !!!!!
x im not perfect, Im just me ....... Princess P x

Liverbird

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #6 on: 02 May 2012, 01:46:02 am »
Something we have in common xprincesspx. Apart from our luscious lips ;D
W.x

EllaD

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #7 on: 02 May 2012, 05:25:07 am »
I worked in a pub part time. Shit hours, shit pay, shit treatment - spent whole time thinking 'I'm better than this'. Everything's relative I s'pose. The awful meat f*ck clients that treat you like a walking orifice...Yeah they do make me think that I am better than that. Because I am. Everyone is. But the majority, the nice ones; God some treat you so well that it's kind of a case of 'I'm not sure I deserve this'.

I wouldn't take it personally, he probably thinks it's what you want to hear.

Mellow

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #8 on: 02 May 2012, 07:13:01 am »
I started an earlier thread about this. These guys have issues.

etherealmelody

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #9 on: 02 May 2012, 07:30:27 pm »
Oh god, I have had punters tell me, "So you're just doing this to pay the bills? Don't make it into a career!"
The worst was, "No, Melody, you are so much more clever and skilled than other girls I have met up with! Don't go down this path."

It is like... listen here, chap, you're the one paying me premium rates for sex. If you keep saving all the WG's there will be no more for you to sleep with. Bugger off.

Emelie

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #10 on: 08 May 2012, 01:33:07 pm »
After I tell my clients I'm a student: "So you do this just to get a bit of spending money?" Like they're trying to reassure themselves I only do this to buy a pretty thing or two, not because I have rent/bills to pay, I love to travel, I save most of the money I earn ? all the normal reasons people work and want to get paid ::)

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #11 on: 10 May 2012, 01:28:15 pm »
For me, one of the worst types of clients are those who feel that I need 'saving'! So I can completely sympathise with you lili69 :)

If he felt so strongly that you shouldn't be doing it, he wouldn't be seeing you  ::)

Yep Cora, thats my view on it too.
Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
And most importantly a beautiful soul.

SnakeLady

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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #12 on: 16 May 2012, 05:50:36 am »
"If I did work with something else, then you and I would never have met."

That usually shuts them up.  ;)
« Last Edit: 16 May 2012, 06:12:30 am by SnakeLady »
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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #13 on: 16 May 2012, 06:08:27 am »
Everything's relative I suppose. The awful meat f*ck clients that treat you like a walking orifice...Yeah they do make me think that I am better than that. Because I am. Everyone is.

Yes we are. And I can really relate to that. I think it's important to remember that prostitution is only as good as the way our clients treat us. Which is why I think it's dangerous to assume that we're all so in control and liberated and always do what we really want at any given time. I find that mindset even more oppressive than "we're all victims" mentality coming from pseudo-feminists. 

I don't get irritated by clients saying "you're better than this". Because I think what they really mean is: you're better than risk getting abused or mistreated by some inconsiderate arseholes.
« Last Edit: 16 May 2012, 06:14:40 am by SnakeLady »
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Re: "You're better than all this"
« Reply #14 on: 16 May 2012, 10:31:04 pm »
I have had this a few times but I have learnt its THEIR issue and not mine x