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Frilz

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Fuming....need to rant
« on: 30 May 2014, 05:57:40 pm »
Hiya lovelies, right i really need to have a rant. IM soooo mad. Right ok, 3days ago I had a "im going to remove the condom half way through and then cum in you without you knowing kinda guy" so of course I was mortified and chucked the twat out. So i didn't really know what to do.....my local GUM clinic was closed so I called the one in the next town. I told her I was a prozzy and a condom got removed etc. I have normally be so well understood at my normal clinic and i expected the same at this one. The nurse told me basically that as i am a prozzie i constantly put myself at risk so why has this situation got myself wound up! The guy was black,poss Nigerian and removed the condom half way thru then told me to enjoy it for the rest of my life. I of course thought HIV etc. She eventually offered me PPSE but very reluctantly and basically told me not to take it. So now in on dayb4, she never offered me MAP, although i didn't think about it myself until this morn. I have never felt so let down and stupid. So now i have to wait 2weeks for sti check  and  3 months for hiv. I will put a ugly mugs thing in soon.
cant believe cos in a prozzie the nurse became very judgemental and totally non caring. I stupidly took the nurses judgemental advice and didn't take ppse and IM going to have to live in hell for 3months
 grrrr rant over
frilz x
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BibiofLeeds

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #1 on: 30 May 2014, 07:28:13 pm »
You need to go above her and complain about her.
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Red KB

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #2 on: 30 May 2014, 07:55:22 pm »
Quote from: bibi on 30 May 2014, 07:28:13 pm
You need to go above her and complain about her.
Definitely
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meetingdiversity

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #3 on: 30 May 2014, 08:43:10 pm »
Quote from: Frilz on 30 May 2014, 05:57:40 pm
Hiya lovelies, right i really need to have a rant. IM soooo mad. Right ok, 3days ago I had a "im going to remove the condom half way through and then cum in you without you knowing kinda guy" so of course I was mortified and chucked the twat out. So i didn't really know what to do.....my local GUM clinic was closed so I called the one in the next town. I told her I was a prozzy and a condom got removed etc. I have normally be so well understood at my normal clinic and i expected the same at this one. The nurse told me basically that as i am a prozzie i constantly put myself at risk so why has this situation got myself wound up! The guy was black,poss Nigerian and removed the condom half way thru then told me to enjoy it for the rest of my life. I of course thought HIV etc. She eventually offered me PPSE but very reluctantly and basically told me not to take it. So now in on dayb4, she never offered me MAP, although i didn't think about it myself until this morn. I have never felt so let down and stupid. So now i have to wait 2weeks for sti check  and  3 months for hiv. I will put a ugly mugs thing in soon.
cant believe cos in a prozzie the nurse became very judgemental and totally non caring. I stupidly took the nurses judgemental advice and didn't take ppse and IM going to have to live in hell for 3months
 grrrr rant over
frilz x

Another ex safe member said some thing similar about condom got removed. She found out to be HIV positive bless her. In this game it is best to be very alert observing especially during bookings. I don't take my eyes off them. I even watch their body language closely. Call me paranoid but just safe guarding myself from this happening to me. Even behind doggy I always look it is still on feeling it.
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MissTee

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #4 on: 30 May 2014, 09:25:04 pm »
Quote from: Red KB on 30 May 2014, 07:55:22 pm
Quote from: bibi on 30 May 2014, 07:28:13 pm
You need to go above her and complain about her.
Definitely

My background is the medical profession, and the behaviour from this nurse is awful. Yes we all have our own opinions etc out of work, but you leave them at the door when on the job and treat everyone as equals!!! Go to PALS via hospital/clinic website and make a complaint, it can be anonymous xx
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AlexRa

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #5 on: 31 May 2014, 12:31:59 am »
Quote from: MissTee on 30 May 2014, 09:25:04 pm
Quote from: Red KB on 30 May 2014, 07:55:22 pm
Quote from: bibi on 30 May 2014, 07:28:13 pm
You need to go above her and complain about her.
Definitely

My background is the medical profession, and the behaviour from this nurse is awful. Yes we all have our own opinions etc out of work, but you leave them at the door when on the job and treat everyone as equals!!! Go to PALS via hospital/clinic website and make a complaint, it can be anonymous xx

OMG what a b@. Sorry. You are in a risk, you know it and that is why you coming there for professional advise and help. Complain. It is not her place to comment.
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Pink~Princess

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #6 on: 31 May 2014, 12:50:03 am »
Enjoy it for the rest of your life? I think this is a police matter! Sick bastard! x
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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #7 on: 31 May 2014, 12:58:15 am »
Pink Princess I think is right.God forbid and chances are you are fine but I do believe that knowingly passing on an std is classed as assault.
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Pink~Princess

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #8 on: 31 May 2014, 10:08:26 am »
It's classed as an assault for a minor STI but knowingly passing on HIV, sure is a much worse offence x
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TheLittleMatchGirl

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #9 on: 01 June 2014, 12:04:55 pm »
I'm certain people have done jail time for this.
I really hope he's just trying to scare you, I think that's probably the case.
Or he could have been referring to pregnancy. I know you said she didn't offer it but did you get the MAP? Are you on the pill?
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Frilz

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #10 on: 01 June 2014, 03:54:52 pm »
Hi, no i didnt think about it and i was too late to ask for it. Seeing a sw project worker tomorrow so will talk to her about it. Thanks guy....i know hes prob just feking my head up bt i just feel so so stupid :(
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Miaa

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #11 on: 01 June 2014, 04:03:05 pm »
So sorry that happened to you, hun. Totally get why you're pissed off- I would be.

I definitely agree with PP and bibi- it's a police matter. You gave your consent on clear conditions and he disregarded those conditions.

 
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barbie88

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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #12 on: 02 June 2014, 11:16:59 am »
This is disgusting when the condom broke on my friend they were very nice to her because the guy was black African they gave her that pep medication and they were lovely. I would complain some nurse she is . x
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Re: Fuming....need to rant
« Reply #13 on: 02 June 2014, 02:59:38 pm »

Normally the HIV rapid test is very accurate by 4 weeks, 3 months is just to confirm for the people who take longer to sero convert. I know this will sound gross but if someone does come in you without permission some how collect their DNA  :-\ so when you report them to the police it can be used against them.

I am sure you will be fine. If a nurse or doctor ever does that again, find another clinic immediately even if you have to a near by town within the first 72 hours, lie if you have too.

I know this sounds stupid and might turn off some customers off (my safety comes first) but  I put in large handwriting on a piece of paper example " London police station 0208 000000" on a bedside drawer, where they can see it but only after the deed has began, just to let them know I am not scared to call them. Some punter think that we are too scared to call the police so can take advantage.

I know my ways seem a bit weird and most WG won't do that but just something I do :-\
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