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sadie x

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"Whats your speciality?"
« on: 26 June 2012, 12:15:14 pm »
Whats your trick?What you renowned for?what you good at?Show me something new?
Any thing along theses lines,always make me wonder what the hell to say..(and irritates me)
so right lets say my speciality is domination,protate massage,watersports.
then they look at me strange,like no nothing like that!!
so what are they expecting me to say,for god sake!
im a gfe patient,give bj and sex..but there not a speciality are they??
how can we call something that everyone can mostly do a speciality!
when they say it,it gets my back up....Do they want me to start doing cart wheels,smoking a fag with my privates..what are they wanting it buggs me..

as soon as they say,"show me something new",i always feel like a failure,because i dont know,whats new to them,and i dont do anything to extreme..
 highly annoying                     
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amy

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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #1 on: 26 June 2012, 12:18:15 pm »
Sadie, there's a pretty good chance they have no idea what they mean either. Why not just ask them what it is they're looking for? Or do what I do and politely ask them to explain the question because you're not sure what it is they want to know?
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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #2 on: 26 June 2012, 12:23:41 pm »
Just say you specialise in tolerating sexually inept men being sensual and patient in exchange for their money  ;) But I know what you mean, I hate it if I'm asked what I specialise in because I don't do anything other than GFE, and then I sound really dull  :-\
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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #3 on: 26 June 2012, 02:03:43 pm »
A lot of guys come to me after reading about my ability to squirt and I rarely get asked about other USPs but I do hate it when they come back, like the guy yesterday, expecting me to do something equally as impressive without having given it any thought whatsoever!!! Managed this time with a bit of deep throating but I'm not sure what I'll think of for next time!!! Maybe I'll get my butt plugs out for him... **Evil Laugh**
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sadie x

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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #4 on: 26 June 2012, 02:43:07 pm »
Quote from: DianaMurphy on 26 June 2012, 02:03:43 pm
A lot of guys come to me after reading about my ability to squirt and I rarely get asked about other USPs but I do hate it when they come back, like the guy yesterday, expecting me to do something equally as impressive without having given it any thought whatsoever!!! Managed this time with a bit of deep throating but I'm not sure what I'll think of for next time!!! Maybe I'll get my butt plugs out for him... **Evil Laugh**
its funny you mention this,has i had a customer who was very hard work the other day..
he kept saying i want to make you squirt!
and i kept telling i cant do it and only the lucky few can!
he kept saying "just relax""it will happen"
it wont bloody happen,cus ive the best sex ever with partners and not done it!
why am i going to do it with a stranger with vile breath!!
but yes i suppose this is an example of a speciality..but only one of the few,without offending and mentioning dom or other kinky fetishes.x
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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #5 on: 26 June 2012, 04:19:00 pm »
Quote from: DianaMurphy on 26 June 2012, 02:03:43 pm
A lot of guys come to me after reading about my ability to squirt and I rarely get asked about other USPs but I do hate it when they come back, like the guy yesterday, expecting me to do something equally as impressive without having given it any thought whatsoever!!! Managed this time with a bit of deep throating but I'm not sure what I'll think of for next time!!! Maybe I'll get my butt plugs out for him... **Evil Laugh**

I do squirting too although Im not a machine and cant do it all the time and I always get guys ramming their fingers in my pussy screaming 'I wanna make you cum!!' and I'm just thinking, love, your not going to
 
I hate it when they ask this 'what do you specialise in', its like what do you think I am some sort of magician or acrobatic performer!!  :FF
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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #6 on: 26 June 2012, 04:57:52 pm »
Quote from: Kimmy on 26 June 2012, 04:19:00 pm
? Im not a machine and cant do it all the time and I always get guys ramming their fingers in my pussy screaming 'I wanna make you cum!!' and I'm just thinking, love, your not going to?
Tell me about it! I?ve found that the guys who are the most sexually inept are the ones who seem to think that I can come on command, and that a bit of poking around in the general direction of my clit whilst staring into my eyes, breathing their rank breath into my face, is going to do it  ::). I?ve even had one guy ask if I?d come when he was so crap I had to fake the occasional ?mmm? every minute or so just so I wasn?t silent. I mean I didn?t even fake an orgasm and he thought he was turning me on  ???
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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #7 on: 26 June 2012, 05:22:24 pm »
Well I am both blessed and cursed with my USP, blessed in that its pretty much both consistent and prolific; cursed sometimes as that puts more pressure on me to 'perform' by a particular type of client and that can be pretty stressful, not to say bad for the areas concerned.

So can I just ask you other ladies (non squirters) are you expected often to 'come on commend' and 'constantly' during the whole session because some guys expect that from me on a regular basis even though its explained clearly on my profile that this type of pressure usually has the exact opposite effect  :FF :FF
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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #8 on: 26 June 2012, 05:32:16 pm »
Quote from: Mellow on 26 June 2012, 05:22:24 pm
So can I just ask you other ladies (non squirters) are you expected often to 'come on commend' and 'constantly' during the whole session because some guys expect that from me on a regular basis even though its explained clearly on my profile that this type of pressure usually has the exact opposite effect  :FF :FF
Thankfully not, Mellow. But what I do get are email enquiries from men asking how often I come with clients and will I with them. They just don't seem to understand that I don't want to answer the first question (none of their business), that I can't guarantee anything, and that each experience is different so it's pointless going by how other clients have been with me. Unfortunately that then leads to them saying my reviews are pointless then if they won't get the same experience *sigh*  ::)
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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #9 on: 26 June 2012, 05:37:37 pm »
Quote from: PoshTotty on 26 June 2012, 05:32:16 pm
Thankfully not, Mellow. But what I do get are email enquiries from men asking how often I come with clients and will I with them. They just don't seem to understand that I don't want to answer the first question (none of their business), that I can't guarantee anything, and that each experience is different so it's pointless going by how other clients have been with me. Unfortunately that then leads to them saying my reviews are pointless then if they won't get the same experience *sigh*  ::)

Yes and do they not realise its all part of an experience not just something that happes of its own accord, or by flicking a switch!  Err and also it helps if they actually contribute in a skilled manner and allow it to happen!

I have even put a FAQ on my profile recently saying I will not see anyone who asks if I guarantee it as I every now and then get a flurry of guys asking me that very question.  I am not a machine  >:(

{Edit} Thankfully there are many lovely guys who are not like this........
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sadie x

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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #10 on: 26 June 2012, 05:43:54 pm »
Quote from: Mellow on 26 June 2012, 05:37:37 pm
Quote from: PoshTotty on 26 June 2012, 05:32:16 pm
Thankfully not, Mellow. But what I do get are email enquiries from men asking how often I come with clients and will I with them. They just don't seem to understand that I don't want to answer the first question (none of their business), that I can't guarantee anything, and that each experience is different so it's pointless going by how other clients have been with me. Unfortunately that then leads to them saying my reviews are pointless then if they won't get the same experience *sigh*  ::)

Yes and do they not realise its all part of an experience not just something that happes of its own accord, or by flicking a switch!  Err and also it helps if they actually contribute in a skilled manner and allow it to happen!

I have even put a FAQ on my profile recently saying I will not see anyone who asks if I guarantee it as I every now and then get a flurry of guys asking me that very question.  I am not a machine  >:(
you know what helps??them not saying anything at all!!
its automatic pressure..if we say to them "come"its pressure(so i never do)
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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #11 on: 26 June 2012, 06:56:37 pm »
My speciality?  That would be taking your money.  Whoops did I say that out loud? ;D

I just ask what they want. Most of the time they mean owo, cim and anal.  I wish they would read the bloody website/profile.

As for how many times I can cum, I hate that question as well.  How can I tell them if I don't know myself.  Answers depend on my mood. Amazingly so does my ability to cum :o


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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #12 on: 26 June 2012, 09:41:57 pm »
I once had a guy who asked what my speciality was. I told him that all my services were special as they
give immense pleasure to all my men!  I then asked him what was HIS speciality. His answer was he had a
great track record of "making girls cum" and many of his women had multiple orgasms  :P

ok then, so I challenged him to show me how he did this and he proceeded to squeeze my nipple hard while
at the same time slapping my pussy lips with his other hand, very fast of course!

Naturally I came at least 4 times   ::)

Well you would too, wouldn't you?
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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #13 on: 26 June 2012, 09:51:48 pm »
Sometimes guys are checking services offered, they've seen the website and also may want to make conversation just to break the ice. These aren't however to be confused with those who make contact asking a long list of more, and more detailed questions which aren't appropriate or necessary.

Specialising is a term I associate with parlours. Studying parlour websites I have seen services such as kissing, dfk, 69, o, owo, gfe, cim, different positions,A,roleplay,sub,dom listed. I also believe 'speciality' can also denote services for which there is an extra charge-although some refer to these as 'Extras'.

Since I offer a fully inclusive service, including many of these activities (but not all) as standard I find it difficult to answer the 'speciality' question.

As to whether or not I come with a client, well I usually say I haven't a clue.

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Re: "Whats your speciality?"
« Reply #14 on: 27 June 2012, 06:40:26 am »
Quote from: naughtyjas on 26 June 2012, 06:56:37 pm
My speciality?  That would be taking your money.  Whoops did I say that out loud? ;D


Ha ha ha ha... I think I'm going to say this next time someone asks!
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