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Title: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Cat_BBW on 12 March 2012, 07:37:41 pm
Be interesting to see how this gets portrayed and spun for TV...plus I predict this will encourage a massive influx of newbies to the phone sex industry, once they see 'easy money' being made...

 ::)
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Liverbird on 12 March 2012, 08:53:12 pm
Shall watch with great interest! Used to do this many moons ago via an agency.
Did my head in after the initial 'buzz' of doing something a bit different!
Was 'slave labour' :FF
Don't know what you ladies earn via AW or other sites, for doing sex chat, but the max I earned was ?10 per hour for keeping the guy chatting for full hour... Earnings were based on how long you kept the guy on the phone for (a sliding scale of pay)
The majority of calls ended in seconds... I say 'Hi', guy grunts, then puts phone down... Earnings? 0.001p :FF
Wiley.x
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: RoxyBlu on 12 March 2012, 10:12:59 pm
Watching it now..... I have no words  :FF
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Lady_Lust_XXX on 12 March 2012, 10:33:39 pm
Me too  :FF :FF :FF :FF :FF   Utter trash and how many like said before will be looking for it online tomorrow wanting to earn earn earn !! ::)
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Cat_BBW on 12 March 2012, 10:46:01 pm
I'm loving Jenny (the mature Nothern lady) as she seems very 'real' and isn't pretentious. I'd love her as my aunty or neighbour, or even a friend :)

Oooh, Jenny's off out on a 'date' with a chatline punter. Wonder if it's....*coff* paid...

 ;D
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Cat_BBW on 12 March 2012, 10:47:56 pm
I'm loving Jenny (the mature Nothern lady) as she seems very 'real' and isn't pretentious. I'd love her as my aunty or neighbour, or even a friend :)

Oooh, Jenny's off out on a 'date' with a chatline punter. Wonder if it's....*coff* paid...

 ;D


...and OMG she's 56! I would have taken 10 years off that! :o
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Cat_BBW on 12 March 2012, 11:00:00 pm
Sorry - 'Marny' - don't try to pretend to cry, if you wanna get out of the phone sex biz, it's no more emotional than leaving any other job that you loved (the money, people, perks, hours, whatever).

Boo hoo.

(yes, I realise that C4 may have squeezed that one)
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Cat_BBW on 12 March 2012, 11:01:57 pm
Jenny's new fella....I'm sure I recognise his voice...from somewhere...

 ;D
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: RoxyBlu on 12 March 2012, 11:04:13 pm
Jenny's new fella....I'm sure I recognice his voice...from somewhere...

 ;D

Brilliant.

Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Cat_BBW on 12 March 2012, 11:06:25 pm
Sorry - 'Marny' - don't try to pretend to cry, if you wanna get out of the phone sex biz, it's no more emotional than leaving any other job that you loved (the money, people, perks, hours, whatever).

Boo hoo.

(yes, I realise that C4 may have squeezed that one)

OK, I'm pretty certain that 'Marny' was already a photographer. I'm not convinced by the act.

(Sorry, Marny, if you're reading this. Just not convinced by the TV spin. You're most welcome to join and contribute! :) )
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Cat_BBW on 12 March 2012, 11:08:23 pm
Jenny's new fella....I'm sure I recognise his voice...from somewhere...

 ;D

Brilliant.

I thank you ;D
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: DianaMurphy on 12 March 2012, 11:15:25 pm
What an interesting programme, glad I don't do phone sex any more as there's going to be 1000's of newbies!  ::) I thought there may have been more participants I must say and I did spot the AW directcam up in the background...
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Liverbird on 12 March 2012, 11:32:05 pm
What? Chatting while doing your weekly shop in the local supermarket or strolling along the canal walk, talking about 'dirty stuff' as loving couples and elderly folk pass you by?
How 'did' Aneka? manage to mute the supermarket's disco dancing/shop 'til ya drop music, the general noisy, hustle and bustle of such a busy place, so she could actually hear the guy on the other end of the bloody phone?
The funniest thing was the girl, (can't remember which extremely well educated and financially supported by parent's 'girl' it was now) who 'won't do oral', 'cos it's just wrong!!!  ;D ;D ;D
A ?1 a a minute? I'm deffo in the wrong job. :o

W.x
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Jenny 2 on 13 March 2012, 03:33:43 pm
I have a few comments to make on last night's programme.

Firstly, annoyingly, it's made it look like phone chat earns fortunes........... it doesn't and I have been doing it on and off for years (as a supplement to escorting) and I was amazed to hear someone paid around 400 pounds (I think) she said for one call. 

I've been doing it via aw and yes, it's easy money but to earn anywhere near what they were suggesting you can earn, I would guess you have to literally have your phone on 24/7 so in real terms does it equate to a better earning then doing something else?  The chances of earning big money in phone chat are slim, in my opinion.  I'd be pleased to hear if any of you have any different views.  Yes, I can build up the odd 20, 30, even more credits on aw here and there but to actually be able to earn anywhere near what an escort booking will bring you, is virtually impossible.  During last night's programme didn't that Marny say she could earn 180 an hour? !!!!  Of course, I have never done phone chat literally day in day out so maybe I am mistaken, but I doubt it.

Secondly, for those of us that do phone chat, it's not a great advertiser now is it?  OK, so whilst there will always be men looking to phone us, it has now unfortunately, unveiled some of the home truths and hasn't done our industry any favours at all. 

Perhaps it will be taken with a pinch of salt anyway and after all, guess the demand will always be there won't it?   Perhaps when that woman and her man split up then he'll be back on the phone again................ (oh so cynical aren't I!).

Jenny
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Mellow on 13 March 2012, 03:40:56 pm
My gut feeling........Marny was an actress ............certainly her photograpy business took off at an suspiciously rapid pace (or she was a photographer anyway)  Her story was just totally unbeleivable to me.
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: MissThang on 14 March 2012, 12:48:27 am
Just watching it now! I can't really see them earning ?3-?4 a minute?? Seeing AW was hilarious  ;D
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: MISS RUBY on 15 March 2012, 11:53:41 am
I watched most of that programme just now, but must give it a try for myself just as an experiement with no expectations at all!!!!
Ruby x
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: KatieKurves on 15 March 2012, 03:22:57 pm
Hilarious!!! You just wud not walk round a supermarket talking dirty on the phone. I think there is a lot of publicity stretching on this. I do phonechat via AW & camming which I luv. You can earn quite a bit but it wouldn't make you a good living.

xx
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: La-lique on 15 March 2012, 07:38:04 pm
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Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Kristina Bristol Escort on 15 March 2012, 10:31:22 pm
Well I never - they never mentioned anything about the phone chat girls been an escort as well!!!  What a media generated load of bollocks it turns out to be then - I agree it was rather daft Marny walking along the canal telling people on the phone to woof like a dog and then suddenly having a fantastic photographers job.  It must have been staged I am sure!
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: La-lique on 16 March 2012, 10:02:03 am
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Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: DianaMurphy on 16 March 2012, 02:02:08 pm
OMG! Is that really the girl who left phone sex work to become a photographer? What a load of tosh! And what is that pop up video thing of her all about???  ???
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: lailah terri on 16 March 2012, 02:26:26 pm
I found it really interesting! Some of it did seem a little staged and i did not find the tears at the end genuine. Im sure there is going to be an super duper influx of new phone chat operators now,
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Mellow on 16 March 2012, 02:32:26 pm
I liked the older Northern lady who had been doing it for eons; but that Marny was just dreadful! And fake............

Yes the new influx are all gonna expect super duper money too  ;D
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Cat_BBW on 16 March 2012, 05:38:37 pm

The woman in the supermarket on the phone was kinkydirtybitch from adultwork., but her online persona is certainly very overt, so perhaps it's the norm for her to do so!! ;D Not sure how she can hear the clients though those places are seriously noisy!


I KNEW IT! I knew she couldn't *just* be a phone sex provider, the way she went from talking dirty on phone to successful photographer for escorts was way to smooth....AND she hasn't left the industry, norty C4 showing how all us dirty ladies must really ultimately want to leave the biz ASAP, even when it ain't true!
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: NorthernIrishNatalie on 19 March 2012, 03:22:07 pm
Ok so I am a little late to post on this but I only watched it last night after a week of thinking 'no I am not watching such utter dramatised false shite'. Well was I proven wrong? Did I learn anything I didn't already know? Nope! Did I fuck!

  Did anyone else think the older Northern bird had deffo been an escort at some point??

  And that the 'pads brat' is deffo going to get a little deeper in 'rebelling' against sgt major daddy!

 There is no way the earnings are good enough to let Marny Diamond live in a ?600+ pcm apartment and afford all the other daily basics and treats etc. I think either, escort!!!!!!!! Or actress!!!!! Xx
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: sadie x on 19 March 2012, 03:45:35 pm
The bit that annoyed me is when they said it supplements her LUXURY APARTMENT!! isnt that just average rent??
they dramtise everything!
And whats with walking the rabbit on lead?new to me!!
this programme bugged me just like diary of a call call!!more naive peoplethinking its amazing money to be made.bollocks!!
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: sadie x on 19 March 2012, 03:50:02 pm
oh rent 600
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Phoenix on 19 March 2012, 05:50:21 pm
I was put off watching it from the dire acting of these girls that C4 used for the promotional clip.

I saw more believable ' reality tv' from the one scene of Towie I was unfortunate to catch a year or so ago..  ;D
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: NorthernIrishNatalie on 19 March 2012, 06:22:40 pm

I saw more believable ' reality tv' from the one scene of Towie I was unfortunate to catch a year or so ago..  ;D

 LMFAO! I actually choked laughing at that! I detest TOWIE
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: MissThang on 19 March 2012, 09:51:41 pm
I've just had a look at KinkyDirtyBitch/Amica Bentley/supermarket lady's AW blog. I never realised it was her, I'd seen her on AW and completely didn't connect. She likens it to TOWIE in the blog, funnily enough, along with basically saying they just showed what they wanted to, ie not the escorting and porn  ;D

Did anyone else think the rabbit looked ashamed?
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Cherry-D on 07 April 2012, 02:36:21 am
My gut feeling........Marny was an actress ............certainly her photograpy business took off at an suspiciously rapid pace (or she was a photographer anyway)  Her story was just totally unbeleivable to me.

I really couldnt believe what I heard tonight...this marny woman is on aw and based in leeds. She is charging girls upto 150  to set them up an aw profile! A domme friend of mine, called and asked me to go round and see her, and when i did she had the woman there who paid marny to set her up on aw. Obviously she didnt realise it was a free site, as she is not in the industry but like many others since this program wanted some extra cash, thought fone sex would be the answer!

she has since been getting email advice (not as much as she was promised) and when she has tried to call marny, she has been offish and disinterested.

I dont know how she has the cheek, to make money off another woman and use her like that? well it is beyond me! >:(

Ive explained a lot more to her tonight - the truth this time - not telling her she will earn 500quid a day! and sorted her profile out, whether she has the confidence however, only time will tell. But id love to find a way of stopping any other women parting with their cash and lining her purse!
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: River on 09 April 2012, 07:35:17 pm
Did anyone else think the rabbit looked ashamed?
Ha!  ;D
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: XxAnnaliseXx on 09 April 2012, 07:39:35 pm
There is no way the earnings are good enough to let Marny Diamond live in a ?600+ pcm apartment and afford all the other daily basics and treats etc.
I think either, escort!!!!!!!! Or actress!!!!! Xx
If Marny is kinkydirtybitch,
then possibly both escort & adult model, as her AW profile lists Libby as her TS Escort Partner.
{which is cool}

[envy]Oh ?600 / month rent. God I'd love to be able to reduce my rent down to that small amount.[/envy]

Did anyone else think the rabbit looked ashamed?
Ha!  ;D


Marny and kinkydirtybitch are two different people xx
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: MISS RUBY on 10 April 2012, 08:59:20 am
That Marney's voice was so irritating maybe the rabbit got turned on by her but i doubt many other people would ...
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: KDB on 13 April 2013, 12:38:40 am
This was a great publicity stunt arranged between AW & my model agency & Channel 4.

Like any other paid job of this sort, that's precisely what it was - a job; they told me what they wanted to see & I did it.

Hope that clears up any confusion! :FF
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: amy on 13 April 2013, 01:19:37 am
Well since the thread is over a year old, I suspect most of the posters had forgotten al about it, but you clearly wanted to make the point and I can't say I blame you.

The same people are scratching about the Media Enquiries atm trying to get some freebies off the webcammers, if you fancy telling them to feck off.
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: Cat_BBW on 19 April 2013, 10:12:23 am
The "freebie" the webcammers in question might be referring to was a fully clothed skype chat to discuss what the show involves.

I understand the cynicism surrounding these documentaries but I've done loads of them over the years & this is pretty standard.

If anyone is not in the mood for entertaining an investment of 10 minutes to ascertain whether or not the project is right for their marketing purposes then I'm sure they will be able to make that known.

Personally I am absolutely delighted to have any such free marketing!

That's actually what I was thinking when the webcam doc thread appeared ;D - BUT I cannot participate due to my *other* job. I wouldn't get fired or anything as serious as that, but my *other* work involves mixing with media people, and I can't spoil my chances of getting more *other* work by even making enquiries :( Hope to see YOU on there again, KDB ;D
Title: Re: "My Phone Sex Secrets" C4 10pm tonight
Post by: KDB on 29 June 2013, 12:52:51 pm
Ah thanks Cat! I struggled to offer them the "non sexual" angle they were looking for given I specialise hardcore sex shows.  Going public in such a huge way could and does have a huge impact.  I even got recognised when I checked in for a tour the day after!! (no issues - it WAS in Earl's Court, after all!)  :P