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I hate when (former) clients play silly games like this
« on: 07 July 2012, 06:15:30 am »
Guy I met like 3 or 4 times...well on our last encounter things didn't go PERFECTLY like the other times. I was under a bit of travel stress but tried to stick it out anyway during the appointment. Unfortunently I guess my performance was less than satisfactory.

This dick then had the nerve at the end of the appointment to give me the money and say, "but you didn't earn it!".

I was like whatever, but then he texted me tonight. Asks if I'm available and if he can come over. Then says he'll text when en route. Then, texts a few minutes later saying something came up and to take a rain check.

I'm like, naw...it don't work like that. I told him I know our last encounter seemed to be a bit of a let down to him but I was going to give him extra time for it. But I really shouldn't have even took his offer tonight after I remembered him making that statement.

I text him back: don't babysit my time because another provider cancelled or no-showed but then called you late. And as far as the comment about me not earning $100, you should be LUCKY that I even let you do THAT because you are disgusting!

I know that's unprofessional, but I'm at the point where I'm tired of clients just saying whatever they want to me. Shit, he got 3 BOMBSHELL appointments out of me and never even been strapped fucked before. And then 1 time I have a bad night and I have to get shit for it. I'm not taking it! Most people wouldn't even touch em they have little room to moan. Time to stand up and step up and let them know I'm not having it!

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Re: I hate when (former) clients play silly games like this
« Reply #1 on: 07 July 2012, 02:33:00 pm »

This dick then had the nerve at the end of the appointment to give me the money and say, "but you didn't earn it!".


At the END of the appointment????!!!!!! Lucky he paid you at all.  Money up front always, even for regulars as you never know when they are going to try and push a boundary.

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Re: I hate when (former) clients play silly games like this
« Reply #2 on: 07 July 2012, 05:56:57 pm »
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I text him back: don't babysit my time because another provider cancelled or no-showed but then called you late. And as far as the comment about me not earning $100, you should be LUCKY that I even let you do THAT because you are disgusting!

(http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-laughing001.gif) Blaine you're awesome. Please someone get this girl a reality show soon.
« Last Edit: 07 July 2012, 06:02:15 pm by Ana30 »
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Re: I hate when (former) clients play silly games like this
« Reply #3 on: 09 July 2012, 07:28:34 am »
At the END of the appointment????!!!!!! Lucky he paid you at all.  Money up front always, even for regulars as you never know when they are going to try and push a boundary.

Yeah it slipped. He had a pretty nice house so if he didn't pay I'd probably find something FAR more expensive than what he was paying to take along with me (totally kidding).

I actually asked him for the money upfront once, and he laughs and says, "ah you're a strickler about it aren't you?"

I kind of feel bad about texting him that he's disgusting, but when it comes to blatant disrespect of my time and then saying stuff like I didn't earn something gets me right up the wall. I'm not the single girl I was throughout my time in the industry and now that I have a boyfriend I refuse to take shit from some chump. It's like really? I'm not going to stand for it.

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Re: I hate when (former) clients play silly games like this
« Reply #4 on: 09 July 2012, 02:07:55 pm »
Blaine I know you are leaving the industry soon but do feel you need some time out now.  Its just my opinion from from reading your posts you seem to hate your clients which is unfair on you and unfair on them when spending their hard earned money.

Ok this guy made an awful comment, but you admit you did not give him a great service, that is no excuse for his comment but you should not have seen him if you are not on top form otherwise you set yourself up for negative comments.

We all get guys cancel on us be it with a few hours notice or a few minutes but being rude and calling them disgusting is not the way to go.  It would have been far easier to just ignore his texts. 

If you are rude to clients believe me it gets around and then less people will see you.  Take a few days to just chill out away from them and you may be in a better frame of mind.

I am not looking for an argument I am just stating what is quite obvious to anyone reading your posts, at the moment you do not have respect for your clients and speak negatively about them from all I have read on your posts.  Its not a great place to be for your own sanity and you would be far better to just walk away now
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Re: I hate when (former) clients play silly games like this
« Reply #5 on: 09 July 2012, 07:34:15 pm »
Hola Dani,

I agree. And in fact I got up today and sent him a text message saying I was embarrassed and that it was unprofessional of me to do so, but I had a few drinks that night (he was texting late on a Friday) and took his cancellation personally. I said that if he decides to excuse me, to call next time because text messages can give the wrong idea.

He actually texted me back that he understood and it all happens to us! He also mentioned about setting something up again. Now, hopefully it's not to kill me or anything LOL. But a REAL appointment j/k lol. I'm usually always nice to him so I'm sure he knows it. I just had to get it off my concious. 

Actually, after I sent the text sayin he was disgusting, he says a family member showed up at his home unexpected. Whether it's true or not, I don't know. Don't care. But at this point it's settled.
« Last Edit: 09 July 2012, 07:37:48 pm by Blaine »

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Re: I hate when (former) clients play silly games like this
« Reply #6 on: 09 July 2012, 09:48:37 pm »
Really glad to hear it.  Things do come up unexpectedly as I well know.  Sometimes I have to cancel appointments and do not know until the day due to my condition but I would be mortified if someone was rude because of it (then again I do warn them if they book in advance lol). 
Glad to hear you are feeling more level headed about the whole thing as sometimes we all need a break from this job as it can wear us down especially after a long run of timewasters or guys who have no respect.  I have found the best way to stop this is to be extra strict I.e NO texts at all. If someone is rude once, they leave straight away and never get another chance, timewasters get about 10 seconds of my time before I hang up, block their number and forget about them. We can normally all spot  TW in seconds.
Just be much stricter until you quit.  Have a set price and if someone tries to haggle on the phone politely say sorry but you are not the girl for him and hang up.  If he tries it when with you, tell him it is time for him to leave as your prices are fixed regardless of his reasons.  Be really strict and you will find you have much more patience as you wont have to deal with the idiots so often
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