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reneesme

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"JESS" or "THE WIFE"
« on: 03 July 2012, 10:17:28 pm »
Has anyone had anyone contact from a women claiming to be from London called Jessica, Jess and she calls herself the wife when showing  you a couple of dirty videos of herself and a black man called Greg. She claimed she was coming up north on business every week overnight and wanted a regular Bi lady, got me to change stuff on my profile and business took a nosedive, is she a sabatouer or what is going on??
I heard from her about half a dozen times and never again, she had a with held number as she said her calls were monitored by work as were her e-mails so she never e-mailed me - I have been scammed haven't I??? ffs

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« Reply #1 on: 03 July 2012, 10:24:41 pm »
How did she get you to change stuff on your profile?  Never take advice from someone who you do not know and who wont allow you to have her number or email at the very least.  I am not being judgemental I just do not understand how someone you do not know can get you to change your profile that you would have worked hard on.
For all you know she could have been another girl in your area who has the same style as you around your age and size and was just trying to ruin your profile as she was competing for work.  She might have just been a nutcase.

Your profile is your business and your livelihood so do not allow anyone who you do not trust completely to get you to change anything.

Also a bit of advice, if you change your profile always keep a copy of your old wording incase you decide the new look profile is not working for you
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reneesme

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« Reply #2 on: 03 July 2012, 10:40:22 pm »
Dani, she was so sweet and complimentary and I was so new at being independant, I fell for the flannel, she said had I thought about black men, out that on my profile as she had a friend who was interested in in having a 3 some with me - I am wising up very quickly though

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« Reply #3 on: 03 July 2012, 10:57:48 pm »
How do you know it was her in the videos?   If I had a call like that I would terminate it quickly.
Accepting calls from withheld numbers could be dangerous.  If you have added something to your
profile which you now regret then simply get rid of whatever it is!

I have had calls and emails from "women" with all kinds of enquiries and always err on the side of
caution even if it means losing work through letting a few genuine ones go down the chute.

So this woman sent you video clips and you opened them?  I would not even have done that, she could
have been sending you harmful bugs to mess up your computer.

I understand that you are not too experienced but you need to wise up and realise there are a lot of nasty trouble making
people out there.  I wish you well and hope you are a lot more wary in future.

reneesme

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« Reply #4 on: 03 July 2012, 11:17:28 pm »
they were on x hamster, she showed me 3. I am alot more savvy now, thank you all for all your advice x

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« Reply #5 on: 04 July 2012, 12:29:19 am »
Yep this lady contacted me the other week. She's tried a few times now, says i should advertise that i like black men...when i told her that i don't lie on my profile she wrapped the call up quickly.

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« Reply #6 on: 04 July 2012, 12:35:30 am »
I think this is the same woman that contacted me a few years ago. She also referred me to xhampster and told me about her liking for black men. She also started talking about wanting her daughter and her to hire an escort together. I was bored so listened for a while but when she mentioned that I hung up. I'm still not sure what she wanted to be honest! It was very strange.

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« Reply #7 on: 04 July 2012, 08:03:19 am »
Well, sadly, being a woman doesn't mean someone isn't a prossie-bothering perv - we don't all have a "sweetness and light" gene that makes us inherently trustworthy and nice! I'm really sorry the the OP got drawn in by one of the many people who spend their spare time basically harassing sex workers but, as others have noted above, this is an unfortunately fairly common thing to experience so learning to nip weirdness in the bud from anyone who contacts you - male or female - is important. At least it's a lesson we all learn quickly after our first bad experience!

Just return your profile to its lovely previous state and make a note not to answer any more withheld-number calls. I periodically forget this lesson but am always reminded within 30 seconds of the weird conversation that inevitably follows! :P
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Cherry-D

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« Reply #8 on: 04 July 2012, 08:08:32 am »
yeah i had a call from her nearly 2 years ago when i started, saying she was coming up north on business and would want regular 3 sums....she is very well spoken and has an answer for everything, she was on the fone for half an hour!! i couldnt get her off! and being a newbie i was too polite to hang up, but ignored every call after  :P ;D

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« Reply #9 on: 04 July 2012, 11:32:02 am »
I don't know if its the same person but I had one calling herself Neenah or Neena I can't remember the full name now. but she didn't address me by my name it was hello there. She wanted a threesome and said this is not a joke which made me think why would she need to tell me that. She also wanted to film it and take photos which I don't do, and also wanted my number if it wasn't on my profile which it was at the time.

It just came across as big time wasting bullsh** so I blocked her.  ::)
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reneesme

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« Reply #10 on: 04 July 2012, 08:50:22 pm »
OMG what does she expect to gain from doing this?

She was very well spoken, talked me into putting I like black men on my profile too, she also showed me a video on xhamster of her "mother" and an escort in a hotel room in spain. She rang me a few times, over 2 weeks but I haven't heard from her since.

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« Reply #11 on: 05 July 2012, 12:09:31 am »
Sorry if I have missed something here but you still don't know it is actually
HER in those videos.  If you have not met her then how would you know she is the person
in those movies?  She sounds like a complete head case and best just avoided and ignored.

Unfortunately it is not only men who play silly games with us, there are women out there too who
are full of spite and malicious trick playing. God knows why but being in this industry (for want of a better
word) attracts the dregs, I have had my fair share of pranksters attempting to con me but I have not fallen
for any of it.

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« Reply #12 on: 05 July 2012, 10:23:38 am »
The other thing to think about is; is she really a woman?  It might be a man who can change his voice, think Mrs Doubtfire, or even Michael Jackson.  And there are some younger men who sound very feminine.

There are plenty of women out there who are twisted enough to set us working girls up.  Look at the female pimps, they don't give a damn about the working girls, and does anyone remember the couple who pretended to own some high class agency and tried to get girls to pay them a very high fee to join.  The woman was the one that done the hard sell.

In the non-working world just look at the recent cases of girls being abused where it was another girl who lured the other girls into the sex ring.  And for those of us who have worked in a predominately female office how bitchy and vindictive can some women be?

Being a women does exclude you from the evil twisted gene.

It's a fact of life that being a prossie results in you being targeted by scum trying some weird crap.  Both men and women.  Trust no one.

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« Reply #13 on: 09 July 2012, 09:56:48 pm »
The other thing to think about is; is she really a woman?  It might be a man who can change his voice, think Mrs Doubtfire, or even Michael Jackson.  And there are some younger men who sound very feminine.


this is so true..i met a guy once and i still didnt believe he was a man till i saw him in car park..i thought it was a con..but he was definetly all man..softest feminine voice i ever heard.
it is rare but possible..