I have been escorting since 2006 and fingers crossed I have never had a walker or a runner. I don't think it would bother me if I did as I can't be everyones cup of tea meaning my appearance or how I perform. We can't please everyone.
Thats made me feel worse!!ive had a good few..so it must be me!!
No, I doubt it. It?s great Jan has been fortunate in this regard but just because you?ve not been so lucky doesn?t mean it?s you.
Sometimes blokes don?t read profiles, get them mixed up, simply change their minds or are just timewasters who had no intention of going through with the meeting in the first place. Or shock horror one or two might not get turned on by you...soooo? Some men out there can?t see what the fuss is about Angelina Jolie. You can?t be everything to everyone.
It?s also (I think) to do with the turnover you have. If you only see a couple of clients a day/week/month any mishap is going to feel magnified to you. If you see loads, the odd blip here and there is nothing. On the other hand if you see tons then I would think there was more chance of walk outs as you?re seeing a higher volume of men and so the chance that you?re not going to click with one is going to be higher.
Anyway after all is said and done, why not concentrate on the positive experiences? The guys who thought you were perfect for them and just what they were looking for. I?m willing to bet the good guys far outweigh the bad experiences, why let a few assholes make you doubt yourself?
You can?t always control how people behave towards you but what you can control is your own reaction to that behaviour. People can only irritate/piss you off/ affect your self esteem if you give them permission.
Wow I should look into giving inspirational talks my talents are wasted as a prostitute!!! lol