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Betty

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"I don't think I can do this..."
« on: 15 May 2012, 03:54:40 pm »
Hmmm, its been a bloody slow 2 weeks and with rent day looming, i'm panicking!!!

Anyway, this week i've had 3 bookings from a guy on AW but as I state, I dont accept booking requests without an email first, so I have ignored them.
Today, the chap emails me....

"can I book an appointment for today please?"

So we exchange emails, arrange a time... and I call him to see him in.
And in he comes...

The bloke comes in and looks a bit nervous/sketchy,, so I say, would you like to come in and have a little chat and a drink first....

So, I see him in, he looks like hes about to cry....

And I say, "are you okay babe?"

And he starts rubbing his eyes, like he really is going to cry and says... "I dont think I can do this."

So, i'm like, "okay, is it because your nervous, or is there anything I can do? Or is it a physical thing?"

And he says...

"I need to go, I really really cant do this.... I'm sorry, I just cant."
And literally goes running out of the door....

WTF?!

I thought I looked quite nice in a short-ish summery dress and sandals, hair and make up done... but maybe I wasnt his cup of tea?!

I'm so confused...

This has never happened to me before!!!

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #1 on: 15 May 2012, 04:09:26 pm »
He panicked and ran. He'll probably be kicking himself later!

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #2 on: 15 May 2012, 04:11:42 pm »
Yep, I would bet a very large pile of money that it's him, not you. There would be a small side bet that he doesn't have feedback from other escorts for 'in person' bookings.

'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #3 on: 15 May 2012, 04:13:30 pm »
He had 1 feedback from someone who only offers massage and HR but that was over a year ago.. he babbled something about never having done this before he said he really cant and ran out of the door...

I would feel sorry for him... If I wasnt so skint!!  ;)

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #4 on: 15 May 2012, 05:57:04 pm »

I've had a few runners myself, but they haven't been as honest as yours, usually its the 'my wallet's in the car' trick before dashing off.
I think a lot of them find it impossible to be honest about how they feel.
Strangely I had a young guy today do a runner 40 minutes in to a session, I'd suppose it was his embarassment at not cumming that had him wanting to 'go to the toilet' only to put his clothes on while there and leave without saying a word! I could see him running across the road back to his car!
I suppose its a mixture of embarassment and nerves, its not easy for some people to get intimate with a total stranger even when they think its what they want beforehand looking at your profile and pictures etc...Sometimes they feel a pressure to perform and maybe worry that they won't live up to some assumed sexual expectation even when there really isn't any.

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #5 on: 15 May 2012, 06:08:53 pm »
OMG Juliette! You're kidding.....he actually felt the need to try and sneak out? That's bizarre! I can just imagine him running across the road still doing his buttons up! Hahaha! Imagine if he then found he'd left something behind.....do you reckon he'd have come back for it? lol.   x  x x x

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #6 on: 15 May 2012, 06:15:58 pm »
OMG Juliette! You're kidding.....he actually felt the need to try and sneak out? That's bizarre! I can just imagine him running across the road still doing his buttons up! Hahaha! Imagine if he then found he'd left something behind.....do you reckon he'd have come back for it? lol.   x  x x x

Well he was quite young, I get the feeling that he just didn't know how to 'end it' or what to say the oral was going on for ages he didn't seem overly aroused and I think was perhaps a little embarassed as he had wanted to put a condom on and go anal but he just wasn't getting there .
It looked as if he couldn't get away quickly enough when I saw him rushing to his car reversing out and pulling away!
I thought it was odd as we seemed to be doing okay up until then and he had seemed very turned on by the whole thing.

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #7 on: 15 May 2012, 07:04:00 pm »
This guy today was quite young, 32 I think his profile said.... I still cant quite believe it!!!  ???

Sorry to hear about your experience today Juliette... I at least hope he had paid you first!!

Ive never had anything like this today, though when I first started out and was a bit naive I had a chap email me about a booking, (it was my second ever job) and wanted a face pic, blah blah, I said no, he said, what if I dont fancy you?....
So I let him come over and "see me first"
He walked in... and said... "sorry love, im not paying for that!"

Charming!

To be honest though, ive never been more relieved. He was late 60's, dirty looking with black teeth and STANK of fags. And it must have been bad, as im a smoker myself and rarely smell it on anyone!!!

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #8 on: 15 May 2012, 07:19:02 pm »
So I let him come over and "see me first"
He walked in... and said... "sorry love, im not paying for that!"

Charming!

What an utter w*****! I understand that in the great scheme of things it?s nigh on impossible that every man you will ever come across will find you attractive (and vice versa) but seriously why do some people think it?s ok to be so rude about it?

I?m thinking he was Brad Pitt himself so you must have been heartbroken by his rejection  ::)

Just thank god you?re not unfortunate enough to know this slime ball in real life ? can you imagine the poor sods who have to refer to him as dad, hubby, brother, friend? Ewwwwww :-X
« Last Edit: 15 May 2012, 08:00:06 pm by Danae »

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #9 on: 15 May 2012, 07:24:56 pm »
Hahaha!! Totally Danae.... what a total tosser.

I cant believe I ever agreed to see him at all in hindsight but I didnt have a clue what I was doing when I started and what was/wasnt acceptable.
I actually emailed him after he left and asked him what was wrong with me... << What a tool I was....

These buggars would just get a block and a bloody rant on here these days,,,  ;D

Still, you live and you learn!!

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #10 on: 15 May 2012, 07:27:07 pm »
How long have you been in this job??
I think it just happens to every girl eventually,for a whole variety of reasons..
for about 2 years i got away with no one walking..
then had 2 in 1 day!!and now i have them every so often..
And it always happens when im feeling down :-[
But its even happened when ive felt great..
I had a guy a few weeks ago walk(lost another booking aswell! >:()
Then he text saying,i looked like someone he knew..so sometimes its not always a bad reflection on us.
But i always get down on myself when it happens and start thinking im not worthy!
But we shouldnt waste our energy..x x

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #11 on: 15 May 2012, 07:30:25 pm »
I've been doing it for about 14 months, though only full time for about 7.....

Oh well, like someone said a few days ago.. you win some you lose some!!!

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #12 on: 15 May 2012, 07:32:05 pm »
We all make mistakes, it?s one of the best ways of learning. When you fuck up at something and suffer in some way as a result of that mistake, the likelihood is that you think very long and hard next time. It?s so much more effective than being told by someone else or reading about it in some book. 

When I first started, one of my very first few outcalls turned out to be a prank (my fault, too trusting and didn?t do the proper checks). I ended up in front of an Ann Summers store in Bromley at midnight. Very funny!

You have to laugh I suppose...
« Last Edit: 15 May 2012, 07:38:35 pm by Danae »

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #13 on: 15 May 2012, 07:34:06 pm »
Hahahhahahahahahahahha!!!  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Sorry Danae, that it happened to you... but I must admit that post had me in stitches... x

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Re: "I don't think I can do this..."
« Reply #14 on: 15 May 2012, 07:37:22 pm »
Glad I cheered you up! Lol x :D