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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: TeenKylie on 05 September 2012, 06:21:49 pm
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I really really hate this. Why do some guys actually go out of their way to tell you they will be seeing you very soon when you know full well they won't. One guy I had an outcall in London, he said he really wanted to see me for an overnight the following week on the Thursday 100% so there I am trying to email him on Tuesday asking if we are still on for Thursday and he just reads and doesn't respond at all to my emails! Another one overnight outcall in London tells me he is going abroad for work in the next few weeks and definitely wants me to join him and even asks me to make sure my passport is all fine ect then never contacts me again. Another outcall to London (maybe I should stay away from London! lol) saying he is getting a new house built and when it's ready definitely wants to make it a regular thing with me and then yet again I never hear from him. My point is why do they even bother saying these things? Why don't they just say thankyou for a good time and goodbye without making false promises, what is the god dam point?!
Funny enough these examples where all reverse bookings, my experiences with reverse bookings has always been extreamly positive but is there some kind of patten here I wonder....
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but is there some kind of patten here I wonder....
Yes...men are full of sh*t ;D
Everything anyone says on a post sex high should be taken with a pinch of salt - even in real life.
And those bookings that people harp on about without confirming, should be taken as that - not confirmed. Accept another definite booking, a bird in the hand and all that (hehe, I love that idiom in relation to prossie-ing - could you say a man in your hand is worth more than two in your bush, or is that uber crude?).
Also, I don't contact clients until they contact me. It's stupid, because even though I'm very attainable for a reasonable price, I think they like to think that you're not - and that they've won you in some strange cave-man evolutionary way. Just don't contact them - it makes you look desperate, and money grabbing (not you personally, but people who spam punters).
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The ones that dont say oh Im looking for a regular weekly usually visit again.
The others who frequently say oh you'll be seeing me every week you never see again!
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but is there some kind of patten here I wonder....
Everything anyone says on a post sex high should be taken with a pinch of salt - even in real life.
THIS! LOL! In RL how many men utter the immortal words "I love you" postcoital after a good session when they really don't mean it? Men can't help themselves! In prossie land for me, the guys who say this are usually the one's who I really don't want to see again! Bizarre really!
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Do not believe ANYTHING a client says, full stop. I had one fecker who talked at length about his dying wife, and even showed me a picture, only to discover the woman was alive and VERY well. Not that it mattered, and thankfully I didn't treat him nicer out of sympathy. But men especially when full of endorphins after sex will sport the most ridiculous bullshit. I just nod and smile.
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I really dont understand either..
ive had guys go to full lengh,that they will rent me an apartment,properly through books,after them visiting me loads..never materialised.
1 guy said to me that he also rents property and i turned round and said "i get offered all the time"
and nothing ever comes of it"no for real,will definetly arrange"
never contacts me again!!
I find its the guys who dont whine on about seeing us again that,come back time after time.
think about you regs?they dont, talk about re visiting,they just revisit..
thats what i find..x
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Post-sex they'll say anything! I think every single one of my clients has said "I'll be seeing you again soon" - compared with the number I retain they're all liars. ;D
I don't think it's malicious or that they're trying to 'play games', but I think you have to appreciate that they've just had a rather lovely sexy time with you and are a bit giddy. Yes, at the time they'd love to make it a regular thing and probably quite sincerely mean that they could see you every week and that they want to spend loads-a-loads of time with you.
A few hours later reality kicks in, they become rational beings again and begin to think about work, schedules, finances and general real life non-sexy shenanigans again.
I agree there on a high!
but some things they offer, are to look good and show off.x
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I saw one guy 3 times, we got on really well, I didn't even mind haven't a bit of text banter with him - clean stuff no dirty talk.
Then I sent him the dates I was taking off last month and he said " I was disappointed to be honest, I don't think you are cut out for this business, and I won't be seeing you again!"
why did he say that when he had seen me 3 times?? baffling
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thats so hurtful.
what a weirdo
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I say it back "be seeing you soon!! wow!!"
"fabulous darling, will love it. come again... *winky*"
there's a very good book called "fuck it" and it's about how to take zen principles and apply them into western life (tho he never says that. I just study zen so I know it's the same thing, just worded great for western peeps)
and frankly, if you wanna make it as a prozzie, I think you have to be pretty damn zen about it!!
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I say it back "be seeing you soon!! wow!!"
"fabulous darling, will love it. come again... *winky*"
there's a very good book called "fuck it" and it's about how to take zen principles and apply them into western life (tho he never says that. I just study zen so I know it's the same thing, just worded great for western peeps)
and frankly, if you wanna make it as a prozzie, I think you have to be pretty damn zen about it!!
I'm gunna get this. I need some zen in my life.
xx
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I'm gunna get this. I need some zen in my life.
To deal with the twatty men in your life ;D
LB.x
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I say it back "be seeing you soon!! wow!!"
"fabulous darling, will love it. come again... *winky*"
there's a very good book called "fuck it" and it's about how to take zen principles and apply them into western life (tho he never says that. I just study zen so I know it's the same thing, just worded great for western peeps)
and frankly, if you wanna make it as a prozzie, I think you have to be pretty damn zen about it!!
I'm gunna get this. I need some zen in my life.
xx
Zen, a joint, a couple bottles of wine, a mad shopping trip every few months, and the occasional frying pan, tends to help me deal with twatty men. ;D
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I say it back "be seeing you soon!! wow!!"
"fabulous darling, will love it. come again... *winky*"
there's a very good book called "fuck it" and it's about how to take zen principles and apply them into western life (tho he never says that. I just study zen so I know it's the same thing, just worded great for western peeps)
and frankly, if you wanna make it as a prozzie, I think you have to be pretty damn zen about it!!
I'm gunna get this. I need some zen in my life.
xx
Zen, a joint, a couple bottles of wine, a mad shopping trip every few months, and the occasional frying pan, tends to help me deal with twatty men. ;D
Girl after my own heart ;)
xx
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;D
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heh. ;D
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My problem,is has been the rest of my life, ive been saying "fuck it"to..
need to zenifiy work..x x
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Because they think it's what you want to hear
Because they think it's what they will do
Because they think it's polite to say so
In the meantime a million and one things happen, many men don't want a regular girl, or are passing through, or decide it/you aren't for them, or realise their finances aren't up to it, or go on a guilt trip, or simply don't want to.
No customer is obliged to return. If they do great, if not as long as you given a good service, got along well I don't see any problem.
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The ones that dont say oh Im looking for a regular weekly usually visit again.
The others who frequently say oh you'll be seeing me every week you never see again!
They are usually the ones you are thinking never again or are planning on blocking ;D
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Do not believe ANYTHING a client says, full stop. I had one fecker who talked at length about his dying wife, and even showed me a picture, only to discover the woman was alive and VERY well. Not that it mattered, and thankfully I didn't treat him nicer out of sympathy. But men especially when full of endorphins after sex will sport the most ridiculous bullshit. I just nod and smile.
That's awful! What a nasty vile prick!
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I've just discovered the joys of Body Combat - I spent an hour beating the shit out of imaginary annoying clients!!!! Damn good workout ha ha
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Well if one needs a regular girl they would get a girlfriend, all the guys who sees working girls is after variety so who do they think they are fooling.
Some say that when they ring for you to treat them extra nice.
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Well if one needs a regular girl they would get a girlfriend, all the guys who sees working girls is after variety so who do they think they are fooling.
Some say that when they ring for you to treat them extra nice.
Well done for hitting the nail on the head 8)
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Do not believe ANYTHING a client says, full stop. I had one fecker who talked at length about his dying wife, and even showed me a picture, only to discover the woman was alive and VERY well. Not that it mattered, and thankfully I didn't treat him nicer out of sympathy. But men especially when full of endorphins after sex will sport the most ridiculous bullshit. I just nod and smile.
That's awful! What a nasty vile prick!
Tell me! How f**ked up is that? It was one of the few times, I wanted to seriously have a Few words with the wife about what her hubby was up to.