I had two 'best friends' one knew about my job and the other one didnt. The one who did was completely fine with it and it never seemed to be a problem, i'd buy meals out and lots of drinks on a night out etc as I felt bad because she was a uni student, I also spent lots of money when I would go visit her at Uni and would end up footing a lot of the bills for nights out with her and uni pals, not that she ever directly asked I just felt I should as I was in a better position.. Anyway, one day our other best friend found out about me and completely cut me off (bothered me at first but now i couldnt give a f**). Obviously she followed suit and we havent spoken since. Since it all happening both have spent their time spreading the gossip round about me being a 'prossie' and how bad it is blah blah. Take my advice, never ever be generous with the money you earn doing this job. The only people that now benefit from my hard earned money is me and people like my mum, family etc who I can take out and buy nice gifts for at christmas and birthdays etc ... x