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mlmcardiff

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Re: 'Doing money' drama about sex trafficking on bbc2
« Reply #30 on: 24 November 2018, 11:55:48 am »
I do think that some of the hatred or disdain some punters feel for us is because they will have most likely encountered women who really don't want to be there and obviously having sex with someone who is clearly showing some level of 'just getting through it' or even distress is going to have an effect.

Some will respond pragmatically and take steps to try to ensure they don't book someone likely to be trafficked again, like women who have their own websites etc, but some of the more selfish ones will keep booking the women more likely to be being coerced or forced, attracted as they are by the low prices perhaps or promise of any amount of services for a low price. And rather than confront themselves they'll just hate  'whores' for not always giving them exactly what they want. I've seen punters actually *angry* that some 19 year old Romania seemingly at the very least being put through a factory line and having a good percentage of her money going to some pimp, if not out an out coerced/controlled, isn't doing her 'level best' to behave as though he were some sex god she can't get enough of.


Grace D

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Re: 'Doing money' drama about sex trafficking on bbc2
« Reply #31 on: 24 November 2018, 02:18:00 pm »
Yet others experience such guilt that they project that onto women like myself who aren't forced or trafficked. When I get marks on me from normal life activities I have clients who assume they are inflicted by punters, other clients or some other man in my life. During my time as a sex worker I've never been physically assaulted by a man.

The marks have been clothing which has rubbed, and daft accidents caused all on my own some.

Same here, I've never been hurt or abused by a man but I do have a nice bruise on my arm from where I bashed it into the corner of the door and nobody has said anything. I wonder if they wonder about it or if they notice but don't care. But then maybe I'm overthinking. Also I'm an English mature lady so not the typical profile of someone who's been trafficked.

Grace D

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Re: 'Doing money' drama about sex trafficking on bbc2
« Reply #32 on: 24 November 2018, 02:21:20 pm »
I do think that some of the hatred or disdain some punters feel for us is because they will have most likely encountered women who really don't want to be there and obviously having sex with someone who is clearly showing some level of 'just getting through it' or even distress is going to have an effect.

Some will respond pragmatically and take steps to try to ensure they don't book someone likely to be trafficked again, like women who have their own websites etc, but some of the more selfish ones will keep booking the women more likely to be being coerced or forced, attracted as they are by the low prices perhaps or promise of any amount of services for a low price. And rather than confront themselves they'll just hate  'whores' for not always giving them exactly what they want. I've seen punters actually *angry* that some 19 year old Romania seemingly at the very least being put through a factory line and having a good percentage of her money going to some pimp, if not out an out coerced/controlled, isn't doing her 'level best' to behave as though he were some sex god she can't get enough of.

Yes, the anger is quite disturbing. Perhaps its a manifestation of the anger they feel towards themselves but can't admit.

PissedOffPrincess

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Re: 'Doing money' drama about sex trafficking on bbc2
« Reply #33 on: 24 November 2018, 04:01:59 pm »
A man i used to see every week once asked me to do Slut roleplay
As part of the roleplay i got torn stockings to wear smudged my make up and did a black eye.
We had a fantastic meeting real laugh

As he was walking out the door he turned to me and asked me who did that to me
I asked what he meant

He asked who beat me up

He thought the  torn clothes and black eye were real and he went ahead with his booking as normal

I still feel sick

Mirror

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Re: 'Doing money' drama about sex trafficking on bbc2
« Reply #34 on: 24 November 2018, 04:09:00 pm »
Same here, I've never been hurt or abused by a man but I do have a nice bruise on my arm from where I bashed it into the corner of the door and nobody has said anything. I wonder if they wonder about it or if they notice but don't care. But then maybe I'm overthinking. Also I'm an English mature lady so not the typical profile of someone who's been trafficked.

Like you in mature and very British, also involved in a lot of things which I couldn't make up - and which are fairly obvious to most people who meet or speak to me.

First time the punter text after he'd left, asked about the marks which I'd not even known were on my ribs - result of wearing a steel boned corset all day previous day. Second time was mentioned during a booking, result of doing my then thrice weekly Swiss ball crunches whilst wearing a particularly tight bra. Few weeks ago I had an accident in the gym, when I mentioned it to a long - term regular  client and explained injuries can be assumed to be inflicted by punters /pimps he told me he had wondered about a previous mark I'd had which had been caused by dress maker's pins.

Having seen the Tonya Harding story film earlier this year I guess even the most 'independent' women can be in abusive relationships.

HankyPanky

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Re: 'Doing money' drama about sex trafficking on bbc2
« Reply #35 on: 27 November 2018, 06:33:55 pm »
A man i used to see every week once asked me to do Slut roleplay
As part of the roleplay i got torn stockings to wear smudged my make up and did a black eye.
We had a fantastic meeting real laugh

- what's "slut roleplay" when it's at home and why would a "slut" have a black eye? I guess you learn something new everyday.. .

Also troubling the amount of reference to AW on it, and AW reps coming across as in denial and unhelpful to police. I had to jump through hoops to get verified on AW how do these pimps get a way with it.
That madam was 𝒫𝓊𝓇𝑒 𝒫𝓊𝓇𝒫𝓊𝒫𝓊a sociopath too, a special place waiting in hell for her.
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