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Hannaah

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Re: 'Do you have a boyfriend' The painfully loaded question
« Reply #30 on: 17 November 2017, 05:36:00 pm »
I used to be honest as well but that just seemed to encourage them to pester me for a relationship or to take me out as friends etc despite saying I wasn't interested countless times. Now I just say I'm in a relationship and if they ask if my partner knows what I do I tell them yep he loves it! Shuts them up.
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Sarastar1

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Re: 'Do you have a boyfriend' The painfully loaded question
« Reply #31 on: 17 November 2017, 06:28:51 pm »
Quote from: Hannaah on 17 November 2017, 05:36:00 pm
and if they ask if my partner knows what I do I tell them yep he loves it! Shuts them up.

Hahaha :-)  that's a good one lol I will be saying that in future lol
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VickiV

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Re: 'Do you have a boyfriend' The painfully loaded question
« Reply #32 on: 17 November 2017, 06:39:56 pm »
My wedding ring usually shuts down the requests for dates, but not asking to hang out as "friends"
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English natural beauty

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Re: 'Do you have a boyfriend' The painfully loaded question
« Reply #33 on: 18 November 2017, 12:22:28 am »
I like the line. 'Yes I do and we do this together also if you fancied double teaming me? He can go for hours. They quite often freak, and sometimes it's before it's got us Bookings. If they ask me and make me feel uneasy though and get personal and there's any doubts that they do have bad intentions I tell them he's a cage fighter and we get horny over my job and it's a good shut down and they tend to stop taking the piss. I have definitely found that pretending I'm single leads to clients getting overly friendly and needy and whiny and some of the shit they spew finds me wanting to vomit.
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Re: 'Do you have a boyfriend' The painfully loaded question
« Reply #34 on: 18 November 2017, 10:50:29 am »
This is a good topic I have always said no I dont as I do not have one but I find on cam especially they prefer to hear your single puts them off if they think you have a bf I have always found but then I get stalkers lol and get asked if they can take me out one guy I saw called his self the escort charmer as he felt he could always get a date for free off them lol not me
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Guiltypleasure

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Re: 'Do you have a boyfriend' The painfully loaded question
« Reply #35 on: 18 November 2017, 12:30:49 pm »
Quote from: Sarastar1 on 17 November 2017, 05:31:28 pm
I used to answer this truthfully but not anymore.
I found when I said I was attached the punter usually gets very patronising asking 'what do they think about you doing this?' or 'Do they know?'
Very irritating.
I couldn't give a toss about their personal life so I wish they would but out of mine
I say yes of course they know , he's a businessman too so understands this is obviously work and v different as we ( meaning punter) both know this isn't real is it , it's just fun and I'm a business woman and I like to run my business properly which includes making people feel special , it's my job .
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Re: 'Do you have a boyfriend' The painfully loaded question
« Reply #36 on: 19 November 2017, 11:20:42 am »
Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 13 November 2017, 06:08:17 pm
Small penis humilation.

I've found them asking me if I have a boyfriend often leads to them saying "Does he have a big dick?" and they want me to say "Oooh yeah it's massive, after he's fucked me I can barely feel your pathetic little noodle" etc etc. (My BF actually has an average sized cock, which is perfect for me as I'm not fond of big dicks.)

The other one is "Does he know what you do?" because they like the idea of cheating on both our parts, but I refuse to play along with that. I say "Oh yes he does and he loves that I get fucked by other men and that he gets for free what you have to pay for!"

Even before I started seeing current BF I was telling clients that I had one. Definitely puts off the guys who are likely to get over-attached.

That's an interesting take on it. They normally ask first I've found but so many have an issue with asking for what they really want. I'll ask 'em outright next time if they want this. I like dull vanilla clients haha
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Re: 'Do you have a boyfriend' The painfully loaded question
« Reply #37 on: 23 November 2017, 08:13:36 am »
Quote from: sammy s on 13 November 2017, 07:55:48 am
I just say I'm seeing someone. Nothing annoys me more than when a client wants to stop paying me for bookings and wants to do dinner/cinema instead. As soon as I get a request like that I just block them even if they have been a long standing regular as it's not worth the hassle and awkwardness

This made me laugh out loud. My husband met me whilst I was working in an privehuis (brothel) in the Netherlands and it took a year of weekly bookings before he convinced me to go on a date with him and it was two years before I had sex with him for free!
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