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kizz

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #15 on: 29 March 2014, 11:09:24 am »
I'm always chewing my lip n wondering which answer they'd like to hear. I.e. 'In the past 3 hours I've had at least 27 big hard . . . . .' Or 'oh no. In fact before you came, I was practically a virgin!' Lol :) probably get it wrong about 50% but hey ho! Lol

happyhappyjoyjoy

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #16 on: 29 March 2014, 01:55:24 pm »
I just reckon its small talk, something to say because you don't really know each other. I try to answer as honest as I can. If it upsets them then maybe they will learn not to ask such questions.

Nia Hope

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #17 on: 29 March 2014, 05:14:15 pm »
I always worry that they are asking for unsavoury reasons, ie wanting to know if you have loads of cash laying around

Same here, so I always try to change the subject
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phoenix77

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #18 on: 29 March 2014, 05:54:08 pm »
I just say I've been doing exercise, I leave it up to their imagination to figure out what type of exercise!
I generally ask how their day has been too.

DarleneDreams

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #19 on: 01 April 2014, 09:02:51 am »
My least favorite is when they directly ask "How many guys do you have up here in a day?" I tell them honestly that I don't like to see more than three on account of the traffic. I dont think it's an appropriate question. I find it to be rude and nosey especially if we have only just met.

 I also get asked "What's the most appointments you've had in one day?" I tell them I was saving up four Christmas last December and took as many as five a day then had a month off due to exhaustion lol

sourgrapes

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #20 on: 01 April 2014, 10:28:54 am »
Yes, infuriating. Most of them don't mean anything by it, they're just not very good at appropriate small talk. I usually say something that's an obvious lie, like "you're the 25th today, so I'm halfway through my day". I say it with a smile, and most of them get the message.
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RR

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #21 on: 01 April 2014, 02:31:42 pm »
I got asked this last night by a regular - mid-sex :FF I think some of them think we are just lying there dreaming of willies all day.

happyhappyjoyjoy

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #22 on: 01 April 2014, 07:03:45 pm »
I got asked this last night by a regular - mid-sex :FF I think some of them think we are just lying there dreaming of willies all day.

Wait... you're not dreaming of willies all day??

RR

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #23 on: 01 April 2014, 07:15:51 pm »
I got asked this last night by a regular - mid-sex :FF I think some of them think we are just lying there dreaming of willies all day.

Wait... you're not dreaming of willies all day??

god damn it hhjj, you've caught me red handed. Thinking about cocks whilst eating my chicken kiev.

carachameleon

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #24 on: 03 April 2014, 03:23:08 pm »
I have a few clients who get turned on by the thought of me having been with other men and for them, I always ham it up a little. Otherwise, I would go down the deliberately neutral answer about non-escorting activities like the gym, errands etc. I find that they don't probe further. I also noticed that I only get this question during incalls.

Lucy blue

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #25 on: 03 April 2014, 04:54:35 pm »
I Often get asked that question doing incalls some clients just trying to make conversation but i always just tell them 'no your my first' or i've started later today as i've had things to do just incase they were asking for different reasons.
However i have had clients call me and ask me over the phone have you been busy which i always find odd and never offer a appointment x