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CandyPink99

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'Been busy today?'
« on: 27 March 2014, 11:04:57 pm »
Am I the only person who gets asked this a lot? I never know what to say, I know some guys get off on knowing we've seen other men, but others might like to be a bit naive and think not. Usually I just say 'oh been alright darling, been steady' wether I've been busy or not. Do you ladies get asked this and how do you respond?
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #1 on: 27 March 2014, 11:12:22 pm »
I'm the same, I never know whether they are going to find it a turn-off or turn-on if I tell them I have been busy.  I say the same "It's not been too bad, steady away really" then the ball is in their court if they want me to elaborate on it  :)  Or if it's been quiet, I'm honest with that one  ;)

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #2 on: 27 March 2014, 11:37:59 pm »
I always worry that they are asking for unsavoury reasons, ie wanting to know if you have loads of cash laying around
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CandyPink99

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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #3 on: 28 March 2014, 12:02:56 am »
Yeah I've had a few that just make me feel really uncomfortable from a cash point of view, always wonder if they're going to come back and rob me x
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #4 on: 28 March 2014, 12:12:52 am »
I always answer nah it's dead at the minute, your my only client today

None of their business anyways
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #5 on: 28 March 2014, 12:24:07 am »
I just take it as though they're asking about my day. I don't do a full day of bookings so it's not like I've spent all day romping. I can just say "It's been okay I've been into town and run a few errands etc."

Doesn't necessarily mean they're asking how many guys you've seen (well I pretend they're not asking that anyway) plus when I ask them if they've been busy today I'm just asking about their day in general.

From a thief's point of view they'd wasting their time with me as I go to the bank loads or take my money home etc. easy to do if you have big gaps between bookings but not so if you've only got half hour or an hour, so I can understand the worry.
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #6 on: 28 March 2014, 03:30:23 am »
Same as Holly, I allways tell them I did some shoppings, cooked some meal, never about what I do for a living. Most of them are asking from habit, same goes for : are you okay?  ;D
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #7 on: 28 March 2014, 07:46:44 am »
No we all get asked it all the time. Usually at the end with me when we are lay chatting. My answer depends on the guy tbh. Sometimes i will be honest and say nook its been quiet or yes very busy but only if its someone i know well. If I dont know them then I just say not really or that I started late that day so not yet. Its just general chatter for most guys, the same as us asking  "do you have far to drive" when they leave x
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #8 on: 28 March 2014, 12:19:30 pm »
I respond fairly honestly, and also depends whether they mean number of clients, or other activities. Some men like the idea you see lots of clients, other's don't and it's difficult to tell.
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #9 on: 28 March 2014, 05:29:45 pm »
Quote from: ChrissieDavaar on 27 March 2014, 11:37:59 pm
I always worry that they are asking for unsavoury reasons, ie wanting to know if you have loads of cash laying around

A client once in with me said that he don't see people who aren't busy. Mainly it is to do with if the escort is worth while. I think if clients want to rob they will just do not ask that. Especially the cleaver ones.
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #10 on: 28 March 2014, 05:37:06 pm »
Quote from: Rosa on 28 March 2014, 12:19:30 pm
I respond fairly honestly, and also depends whether they mean number of clients, or other activities. Some men like the idea you see lots of clients, other's don't and it's difficult to tell.

Some clients need to be aware we have sex for money and their is no hiding that. When asked how many I some times say the amount average. My firm belief is if they don't like the answer to the question then don't ask.
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #11 on: 28 March 2014, 05:39:04 pm »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on 28 March 2014, 05:29:45 pm
Quote from: ChrissieDavaar on 27 March 2014, 11:37:59 pm
I always worry that they are asking for unsavoury reasons, ie wanting to know if you have loads of cash laying around

A client once in with me said that he don't see people who aren't busy. Mainly it is to do with if the escort is worth while. I think if clients want to rob they will just do not ask that. Especially the cleaver ones.

Lol my client says he asks as "if she's been busy I feel like I might be another sausage on the conveyer belt" charming fella but it goes to show you cannot decipher what they mean haha
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #12 on: 28 March 2014, 06:36:04 pm »
I always assume they are talking about my general day, so I talk about what I've done in general. Never sexual stuff - I retain a little shyness, even now, lol. Even I ask people if they've been busy today as a general "hows your day been" question.

When I used to tour more frequently I hated being asked the question, really put me on high alert for potential robbery.
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #13 on: 28 March 2014, 11:03:26 pm »
I hate this question! I've answered it honestly in the past only for them to look shocked and disgusted if I have seen another client that day. So I just play dumb and say what I've done with my day or just say 'No, you're my first'.
 Causes less bother!
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Re: 'Been busy today?'
« Reply #14 on: 29 March 2014, 01:42:17 am »
Quote from: Rosa on 28 March 2014, 12:19:30 pm
I respond fairly honestly, and also depends whether they mean number of clients, or other activities. Some men like the idea you see lots of clients, other's don't and it's difficult to tell.

So do I. There are definitely some that like it when you tell them they are the sixth or whatever. I've got regulars that ask every time I see them and I'm used to the routine, it's harmless enough and seems to encourage them. The occasional ones that don't like it I don't worry about, what do they expect after all. When I am asked by a newbie on the phone though the alarm bells ring, especially if it is for a booking late in the day. I never discuss that kind of thing on the phone, and if they don't get that straight away then no booking.
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