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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #30 on: 21 March 2015, 10:51:17 pm »
I'm more scared of my reaction! I sometimes find it hard to 'let go' during bookings and I think this would be one of the things that could push it over the edge and cause me embarrassment.  ;D

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #31 on: 21 March 2015, 11:59:38 pm »
I'm more scared of my reaction! I sometimes find it hard to 'let go' during bookings and I think this would be one of the things that could push it over the edge and cause me embarrassment.  ;D

I'm sure any client will love to see you getting really, really turned on xx

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #32 on: 23 March 2015, 08:39:13 pm »
I don't mind being fingered per se, but I do find that many of them can't do it without annoying me in some way. I actually prefer being fingered internally, by the way, to having them seek out my bare clit and rubbing the fuck out of it. (When they try to focus too hard on the clit I start to hump their hand like I'm horny so they can't keep rubbing it one spot.) I can honestly say that I've never minded being touched "too lightly." I  mean, if they go very soft and featherlike, it will absolutely turn me on. The same goes for RO.

Internally, what annoys me is when they do what they think is the super-expert G-spot thing and strum the fuck out of what feels like my bladder.

YES AND YES.  These two things are my biggest gripes aside from kissing.  I seem to be unable to explain to a man that I like a feather-light touch, even when guiding their hand/fingers they always seem to put more pressure on you the second you let up.  I guess the penis is less sensitive, especially circumsized ones, so they like a lot of pressure?  And when I have told men to ease up on the g-spot thing b/c it just feels incredibly uncomfortable and like I have to pee, they tell me "oh good that means it's working"  :FF I HATE IT.  Even during sex sometimes the g-spot stimulation is way too much and I have to change positions to something with much less sensation.  I have a handful of regulars who do not get to finger me anymore b/c what they really meant by fingering was unrelenting g-spot pounding while attempting to hold me down b/c apparently that's what they do in porn and the women just love it :FF

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #33 on: 23 March 2015, 11:16:21 pm »
HATE people fingering my clip, LOVE internal. Can be as rough as possible and all fingers- nothing gets me wetter! Would love to try fisting but just too scared to try with a client.

Well I think that if you love fingering like that and don't care how many fingers go up etc and aren't tense about getting hurt then you could maybe try getting one of your trusted regulars to fist you?

I would be too scared that fisting etc would stretch me. I haven't had any kids or anything yet so taking a fist would probably split me in two x
If women can give birth and when things settle down be perfectly tight after then a fist isn't going to stretch you.Its not a fist anyway its a hand but with the fingers curled into the palm.I have never had kids but I have been fisted a couple of times and my fanny is as tight as it has always been.

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #34 on: 23 March 2015, 11:18:31 pm »
I don't mind being fingered as long as they don't ram too hard and deep.I can't stand being fingered on my clit.It does nothing for me and mainly feels uncomfortable or they miss my clit completely.

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #35 on: 24 March 2015, 05:02:08 am »
Personal life - I love it and it gets me soaking wet ready for a good fucking but then again my husband knows exactly how I like it. Work life - I hate it and all it does is dry me up like a prune and usually leads to thrush whether their hands are clean or not. I can't understand why punters think I want to be poked right in my cervix repeatedly, I mean like ouch stop it immediately. Then when I'm drier than the Sahara they attempt to stick their cock in and wonder why I insist on lubing up! :FF
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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #36 on: 24 March 2015, 10:02:46 am »
I love fingering, Im the one whos guiding them because I like it and turns me on.
If the guy has no clue how to do it, I show him, after all not everybody is born a wise person :)

I have no separation between whoring life and personal life, Im the same in both, if I like something I do it. Fingering is one of the things I like.
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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #37 on: 24 March 2015, 05:58:25 pm »
I love fingering, Im the one whos guiding them because I like it and turns me on.
If the guy has no clue how to do it, I show him, after all not everybody is born a wise person :)

I have no separation between whoring life and personal life, Im the same in both, if I like something I do it. Fingering is one of the things I like.

I'm the same. Apart from I never actually have sex in real life anymore  ;D

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Re: Fingering - Love it or Hate it?
« Reply #38 on: 24 March 2015, 06:20:46 pm »
Love it my personal life, my bf has beautiful hands and I find it quite intimate. If a client is great at oral I find a sneaky gentle finger feels rather nice! I can't stand when they try and shove their fingers in your mouth after though!