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Author Topic: "Aint no friends in the game you aint learn that yet"  (Read 13970 times)

jamie 1

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Re: "Aint no friends in the game you aint learn that yet"
« Reply #45 on: 15 April 2015, 09:04:06 am »
I do have some friends in this business but feel I can only trust about 2 other workers.

I was a bit gullible to start off with and trusted quite a few people.

The ones that come across as really friendly are the worse as they just wanna know your business and are just nosey bastards.

I have recently put this on a blog in my profile,without the swearing,excuse the French x  :)

meetingdiversity

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Re: "Aint no friends in the game you aint learn that yet"
« Reply #46 on: 15 April 2015, 01:05:12 pm »
Or you can get friendly people who are not too fussed about others business. It just sounds like you met the wrong ones. You get nosy people everywhere just tell them what you don't mind be spoken to others. No personal info as such. Things like this makes me appreciate not having been in that situation ever. Trust is a big thing usually people need to earn it before being trusted. Or open up to getting screwed over.

jamie 1

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Re: "Aint no friends in the game you aint learn that yet"
« Reply #47 on: 15 April 2015, 01:44:32 pm »
I have found the members and admin on here more than helpful

I would have no hesitation asking folk on here for advice, and if it's personal I can contact the person I feel comfortable with by p.m message  x  :)

brownsugar

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Re: "Aint no friends in the game you aint learn that yet"
« Reply #48 on: 22 April 2015, 09:08:21 am »
Doe anyone have information on WG breakfasts or meetups?  Has any of you Ladies/Gents attended any?  Yes this work does get lonely,  when I was beginning I trusted the wrong people. I got turfed out of my home ( I never worked in my home) but the landlord is religious so when my so called friends rang him and sent my adultwork profile, sex videos, and escort website, he kicked me out.  I almost even got outted to family, when I moved cos both places I lived was students accomodation and the same company the Landlord and the girl and her hench men made sure the new place they knew all about me.  I leave my room I have to lock or take everything valuable with me cos it got so bad with people going through my things, damaging my property,amongst other things, I had to go to the police  and recently with a similar pattern of trolls calling me I think I have to involve the police much more this time. (first time round I did not pursue/ tell them everything cos I was scared of them knowing I am a WG and my family finding out, but since finding out  I am not breaking the law and I pay my taxes.   Sigh  ::) :FF I would move if I could afford it currently, but I am working towards it.

Erotic flower

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Re: "Aint no friends in the game you aint learn that yet"
« Reply #49 on: 22 April 2015, 03:29:50 pm »
Hi Brown sugar I will PM you details of a wg breakfast Wednesdays 11am-1pm im attending next week sounds quite good  :)
I'm always ok to support others in this industry & never fucked someone over or outed them to others.
im just not that kind of person even though I've had people do it to me whom arnt in this industry but they were ignorant judgemental gossips. 

Curvygal

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Re: "Aint no friends in the game you aint learn that yet"
« Reply #50 on: 25 April 2015, 02:53:56 pm »
No.

It's not through dismissing other WGs out of hand, or being too picky, I have got closer to some girls in the past but it's always backfired on me.

The last time was the bitch I posted about who ended up copying my AW profile for herself.  SO now I chat on here and keep myself to myself out there....I think unless you're working in parlours/flats/agencies it's not so easy to meet others anyway.

Shame really as it can be lonely.  But there you go.  Just been bitten too many times I guess.