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MissElvira

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Regulars turning wonky and entitled.
« on: 28 June 2023, 08:36:18 am »
Like to hear if anyone else gets regulars go from good to bad, I've had to stop seeing so many after a year or so because they end up getting needy, upset or mess me around.

Feels like how relationships go with these regular clients where they start to to take me for advantage either they get lazy and end up cancelling last minute or they become constant texters, Asking for my time out side of booking for a coffee or dinner and get upset when I keep turning it down. The thing I like about Escorting is I can give these men back to their partners or not have to deal with them.

Right now I have a guy I've seen for a few years and he is one of those who tries to text like I'm his girlfriend and I have to tactfully veer messages away from.

Anyway he put in a AW booking request a week ago and now ignoring my texts and AW emails to confirm. I had a feeling he'd do this after I see he visited a touring girl last week after making our booking and now probably skint. His not even bothered to cancel and give me a pathetic excuse. I'm livid , Luckily I had someone patiently wait for me to let them know if space was free because this other guy was ignoring me.

I just find regulars become hardwork especially the ones not married or in a relationship that can't leave after a booking without needing catch up texts.

I offer girlfriend experience paid for but they seem to think I'm going to want to hang out with them afterwards.
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Petlover29

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Re: Regulars turning wonky and entitled.
« Reply #1 on: 28 June 2023, 10:25:49 am »
I have had to block a few I have seen only a couple of times in the past.  I noticed some who have maybe seen you only 2- 3 times. Start to become annoying texting  asking for availability with no intention to book. Once it happens a few times the pointless texting  about booking with no intentions of booking I just  block. not sure why they do it as they never act that way when they get the first booking.. I think some think as they think you know them now. You will play along with there games. 

I noticed regulars can sometimes be more harder to please and entertain. Sometimes new clients can be a breathe of fresh air, as they can easier to entertain. Although I would stop seeing a regular if he started boundary pushing or texting me pointless things

I only take bookings on the day. Everyone knows my work phone is only turned on my working days. (Maybe that why I don’t texts)
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Justine

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Re: Regulars turning wonky and entitled.
« Reply #2 on: 28 June 2023, 10:53:38 am »
Several regular and long term clients have in the past started attempts at sexy messages in between bookings. I don't offer paid text chat so as kindly as I could explained that I prefer not to receive these texts and most were ok and ceased trying. One ignored what I said and I told him I would not meet him again. He must have been in shock 😀 but after a whole year he asked for another chance. I gave in and he's been fine since.

Others have asked if I am free at eg 2pm and when I've replied yes they don't get back to me. Being plan B or whatever is par for the course but they could handle it better imo.
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