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ff

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Constant cancellations
« on: 10 July 2024, 06:05:20 pm »
I've noticed that every morning booking that's made cancels .
There must be some sort of morning curse :FF
They either  book in advance  & then don't confirm on the day or others  cancel on the day without me contacting them first
I'm not doing this anymore it's really frustrating.maybe they are booking other ladies also as back up .
Has anyone else experienced this kind of problem ?

Mirror

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Re: Constant cancellations
« Reply #1 on: 10 July 2024, 06:15:01 pm »
I've noticed that every morning booking that's made cancels .
There must be some sort of morning curse :FF
They either  book in advance  & then don't confirm on the day or others  cancel on the day without me contacting them first
I'm not doing this anymore it's really frustrating.maybe they are booking other ladies also as back up .
Has anyone else experienced this kind of problem ?

There can be patterns, this is why I have a  very early confirmation time for morning bookings and early even for later ones. I won't change it for anyone, too many forget even after a significant deposit has been paid.

Are these new clients or repeat bookers?

Larisa

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Re: Constant cancellations
« Reply #2 on: 10 July 2024, 06:19:47 pm »
Try taking small deposit of £50 for very early bookings, and ask to confirm one hour before, if they don't send deposit and don't confirm then it means booking canceled, no need for you to wait

ff

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Re: Constant cancellations
« Reply #3 on: 10 July 2024, 08:45:13 pm »
New clients only not repeat reliable regular which I wish I had  :-\

Mirror

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Re: Constant cancellations
« Reply #4 on: 10 July 2024, 09:13:46 pm »
New clients only not repeat reliable regular which I wish I had  :-\

Do you turn others away for this time?

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Re: Constant cancellations
« Reply #5 on: 10 July 2024, 11:53:13 pm »
I do quite a few early morning bookings and rarely have problems, but I can usually spot the ones who won't confirm because they've generally wanted to book the evening before and been told they've left it too late. I'm on a lot of punters' way to work though; if I wasn't I would expect a lot more messers.

They have to confirm one hour before (so 5.30am for a 6.30 booking, 6am for a 7am etc) and I give them five minutes before I switch my phone back off and go back to sleep.

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Re: Constant cancellations
« Reply #6 on: 11 July 2024, 05:58:37 am »
I don't trust morning bookings, so many made the day before don't happen. But I think the urge feels different after a night's sleep. Maybe it's not malicious, they just can't be bothered to get up half an hour earlier than usual.

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Re: Constant cancellations
« Reply #7 on: 13 July 2024, 01:44:35 pm »
I think cancellations come in phases. At least they do for me.

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Re: Constant cancellations
« Reply #8 on: 13 July 2024, 04:35:06 pm »
I have always had similar patterns where day before bookings for next morning get cancelled late nigh the day before or on the morning.
My theory is that they get the urge the day before and start anticipating then that night or morning, they masturbate and the urge goes.

I did have one client cancel a morning appointment who told me it was because he "unexpectedly" had sex with his wife the night before and could not perform more than once in 24 hours. At least he was honest.

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Re: Constant cancellations
« Reply #9 on: 14 July 2024, 08:10:03 am »
I take deposits for anyone who wants to see me before 9am
I make it clear that if they don’t confirm between  a certain time then I won’t be available and the deposit is non refundable

fallen angel

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Re: Constant cancellations
« Reply #10 on: 18 July 2024, 10:08:19 pm »
I've been going great all month, advance bookings pretty much for every day.
Had 2 who booked yesterday for today and one booked for Friday. I woke up this morning to texts from the 2 for today, both of them cancelling.
Lunchtime I get a call from a newbie, sounded young, should have listened to my gut but gave him the benefit of the doubt even though he booked for 90 mins later when he was only up the road..... You guessed it, he was a no show.
Late afternoon I get a text from guy who had booked Friday, he cancelled too!
Think I'll give up on Thursdays, they've been shit for a long time when at one time they were one of my best days, how things have changed.
« Last Edit: 18 July 2024, 10:14:01 pm by fallen angel »