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the805soccermom

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STALKER!!! Please Help!!
« on: 07 December 2023, 03:22:16 pm »
So there is this guy who started out as a client about 4 years ago and then we started hanging out and he got to know my friends and family. But I quickly realized that he is a sociopath and I have been trying to get him out of my life for a couple years now. This guy has now made it his life’s ambition to ruin my life!!! Besides the 500 crank calls in a day, from 500 different numbers, the fake appointments he tries to make with me daily, he is now putting bad reviews about me wherever he can and talking trash about me to anyone that will listen!! Please help with some advice on what I can do. I have 100s of great reviews but he is starting to effect my business!!

washingline

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Re: STALKER!!! Please Help!!
« Reply #1 on: 07 December 2023, 04:57:18 pm »
Report him to the police.
Stalking and harassment are criminal offences.

Tartwivaheart

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Re: STALKER!!! Please Help!!
« Reply #2 on: 07 December 2023, 05:50:08 pm »
Hi hun ,

So sorry to hear your going through this.
Iv had similar experiences in the past , I went to the police . They sorted it . I was completely transparent about the situation and job x

the805soccermom

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Re: STALKER!!! Please Help!!
« Reply #3 on: 07 December 2023, 07:47:59 pm »
But the police can’t stop him from posting bad reviews from different aliases. What can I do about that?

amy

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Re: STALKER!!! Please Help!!
« Reply #4 on: 07 December 2023, 09:03:44 pm »
But the police can’t stop him from posting bad reviews from different aliases. What can I do about that?

Decent punters don't use review sites (or even know they exist, in my experience), and of the handful who do, the ones with enough sense that you would want to be in the room with them can generally spot malicious ones easily.

You can always contact the admin of whichever review sites are involved, but frankly I'd be far less concerned about that than the real life threat escalating and the fake bookings affecting your earnings.

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Re: STALKER!!! Please Help!!
« Reply #5 on: 07 December 2023, 09:50:10 pm »
He is committing a criminal offence (whereas you are not as prostitution is not illegal), call the police .

If you don’t contact the police your life will be a living a nightmare and you will need to leave the job.

Don’t let this fucker get the upper hand. He is committing a criminal offence. There is nothing to be scared of.

amy

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Re: STALKER!!! Please Help!!
« Reply #6 on: 07 December 2023, 09:58:10 pm »
He is committing a criminal offence (whereas you are not as prostitution is not illegal), call the police .

If the username and spelling wasn't enough of a clue, the OP isn't in the UK and prostitution might well be illegal where she is. That said, everywhere is different and the police might (and should) be far more interested in a man harassing and threatening women than they are in her.

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Re: STALKER!!! Please Help!!
« Reply #7 on: 16 December 2023, 12:12:46 am »
Blurring boundaries personal and business would probably never be a good idea