Incall vetting

[Croissant]

Hi guys!

I've been working for a few years now in central London doing primarily outcalls and i only using AW and making sure my clients have 3+ feedback, going with my gut instinct and not seeing anyone if they arise any kind of suspicion at all!

Ive also done in calls in hotels and not vetted clients coming to see me but just having my phone number available but this attracted a few creeps so I went off the idea pretty quickly!

So my question is: how do you vet your incall clients to keep safe, is it the same procedures as outcalls and if so do you have enough interest to make it worthwhile?

Ive searched the threads already but looking for some updated information etc

Thank you!!!

[wishlist]

Think the info will still be the same, they call, you check their number via safe and ugly mugs, no warnings on either and I have thought they sounded ok, no stupid questions ie asking for services I don't provide or asking for BB, I confirm what I offer and I will give a location to go to and for them to call from there, depending on where I am working from sometimes I can see them stood there calling me, if they call me and say they are there and they arnt (its happened in Norwich) the booking is cancelled and on with the next one

[VoluptuousCurves]

I actually feel much safer working from hotels because most clients who might have bad intentions will be put off by the idea of cctv etc. Also if you start screaming your head off in a hotel, someone will hear you, whereas if you're going to their house there will likely not be anyone in earshot, plus you don't know the layout of their house, possible escape routes, etc. (For these reasons I now only do hotel outcalls unless I already know the customer in advance.)

When they call I will ask their name, what services they are looking for, how long they want to book for and what time they are thinking of.
If they ask for a service I don't offer then I will not give them a booking, because from experience this means they will either try haggling the price or they will push boundaries in the booking.
If they start going into detail about the service then they are usually having a wank and have no intention of turning up.
If they want to book a time more than an hour away, I ask them to give me a call one hour or a half hour before the booking (or at a specific time which fits in with my other appointments) to confirm the time and get the hotel details.
If they contact me via text then I will confirm a suitable time and then ask them to call me to arrange the booking. I won't take a booking by text unless I already know the client.

If I get even the slightest bad vibe from them on the phone, I won't accept the booking. Amy gave a great tip the other day: if you're not sure about accepting a booking, ask the client to call back in 5 minutes, by which time you'll know if the time slot they wanted is available. By the time they call back (if they do - if they're a TW they won't) you'll either be looking forward to or dreading their call. If the former, accept the booking; if the latter, don't!

After 6 months of doing incalls regularly, I've now developed a bit of a TW radar and I can generally tell during the call if a guy is likely to not show up. I tend to write these in my diary as "12:00 Tim 1hr GFE, probably won't show up" and then if someone else wants that time I'll double book them. 9 times out of 10 now I am right about them not showing!

As wishlist says of course also search the number on here and on UM.

[amy]

My screening process in a nutshell:

Answer phone, ask punter when he wants to book and for how long.
Whilst he answers, ask myself 'Do I want to see this punter: Yes/No?'
Process ends. This deals with over 90% of calls.

For the other 10% or so when I'm really not certain (sometimes because I might have just had five dickheads on the phone in the last ten minutes and I know my judgement is off), I go to:

Amy gave a great tip the other day: if you're not sure about accepting a booking, ask the client to call back in 5 minutes, by which time you'll know if the time slot they wanted is available. By the time they call back (if they do - if they're a TW they won't) you'll either be looking forward to or dreading their call. If the former, accept the booking; if the latter, don't!

It's simple but it works. I did it the first time out of panic because I'm the crappest person at answering the phone in the universe and it really gives you a chance to breathe and have a think .

[BibiofLeeds]

Pretty much the same as Amy.Say hello and ask them when they were thinking of and for how long.If they ring up and just launch into 'How much is it?' without even a hello then that's a no from me,ditto to the ones that sleazily call me darling and sweetheart while they ask loads of questions or keep going on about how sexy I am.Ditto the ones that waffle on about their fetish/shite I don't do or can't seem to commit to an actual time.I also get rid of the ones that seem to know feck all about me and I refer them back to my profile politely.
Basically if they are polite and decisive about what time/how long those are the ones that are generally good to go!

[Justine]

I have been using the few minutes delay (please ring back when I have checked my diary as it is not handy at the moment) for as long as I can remember. I don't need to use it often but it is a good way to make a firm decision if I want to see him if I have any doubts.

If I decide it's a no, I text him to say sorry can not do today, then block him.

[Kay]

I only book someone I've spoken to on the phone, and go by little clues and gut instinct - have they at least read the basics of my profile? Do they ask moronic questions? Do they sound 'normal'? etc. etc.

Also, never give out your full address. I give them the postcode and a suggestion of where to park, then get them to call when they're here for my door number.

[Aqua Allegoria]

Exactly as all the ladies here above.
Always by phone, never by text. Plus all the rest as Amy and VC.
Also, I mostly ask them if they will be walking or driving. That's because when I work from home or somewhere I'm familiar with I can tell them "Ok, at such and such hour traffic will be very bad as I'm sure you know" (meaning: don't be late).

[Curvygal]

Basically the same.  Name, how long do you want, what time and obviously I'll have the number because they've called me.  As long as there is no stupidness going on, that's that.  I agree with the others if they are pushing for services you don't offer no good will come of the booking.

[lapetitemort]

Ok so my screening process is very strict, but I've never had a 'dangerous' client, only annoying ones (who I haven't booked with again). So I generally vet my clients by a set of (unspoken) rules -

1) Don't ask stupid questions that are clearly on my profile etc are you English, how much do you charge
2) Don't text me with 'u available' or 'u working'- guys I generally accept text me with a little introduction eg hey (name), I love your profile and would love to meet. I'm in town next week, how is your diary looking?
3) Manners; for example, if I say how long would you like to book for? And they reply with '30 mins.' and I get a weird vibe from them, they're probably naturally rude... opposed to something like 'I was thinking 30 mins, please?/Is that ok?' Guys who are straight to the point are fine, but if we have a backwards and fowards chat and there's not one please or thank you, I'm probably gonna not book.
4) No to too much use of 'babe' or 'baby'
5) No to spkin lyk dis prb means ur not my clientele bbz
6) I save numbers that call me in the middle of the late as 'Late Dickheads' - if I get a text from them in the day time asking for a boking, I don't accept. Inconsiderate assholes.
7) If they can't speak english very well, generally won't accept the booking (just can't be arsed with communication issues)
Offering me more money to do OWO when it's clear that I don't offer OWO at all
9 ) Same for anal
10) Like VC said, guys who go way too in to detail eg pages and pages of role play, I won't book in, as they're very likely TW's and are just wanking off (it's ridiculous how many guys get a thrill from booking an escort with no intention of going)

If I'm still not sure about a guy and he's not broken any of these golden rules, I'll put his number in to FB search to see what comes up or I'll add him as a contact and look on Whatsapp at his profile pic; I think you can tell a lot about profile pics etc, I'm not sure why or how but it just works for me, if they look friendly etc. If the guy passes all this screening and I STILL get a weird vibe, I go with my gut.... but there have been times where I've seen a guy who I had a weird feeling about and he was actually really nice.

[Jessica English]

Not to sure I'd recommend looking someone up on facebook or whatsapp using their phone number as I'd hate it if I used my real phone number instead of an escort one and client did that to me and discovered my real name and maybe other personal info.

[Chanel xxx]

Just a thought...if you have been doing Outcalls successfully using your method via aw then why not do the same for your incalls? Please don't think I'm being snarky but from my experience Outcalls are more worrisome than incalls so if you have managed to make a living doing Outcalls then I would vet the incalls using your said stringent standards.

[Londonbaby00]

Not to sure I'd recommend looking someone up on facebook or whatsapp using their phone number as I'd hate it if I used my real phone number instead of an escort one and client did that to me and discovered my real name and maybe other personal info.

They're not going to know. And if it helps the screening process and helps you feel safer what's the problem? I do this all the time and as I don't see guys under 25 it sometimes helps to find out if they're lying. Or just to see what they look like! 

[lapetitemort]

Not to sure I'd recommend looking someone up on facebook or whatsapp using their phone number as I'd hate it if I used my real phone number instead of an escort one and client did that to me and discovered my real name and maybe other personal info.

My safety is more important than what they are comfortable with. My personal number isn't connected to my FB, so it wouldn't happen to me, and I use my work number for everything, don't give my personal number to anyone not even fellow WGS.