Just that really - why do they do it!
The client I'm referring to is a great guy, lots of fun and we get on well together. I don't fancy him but have a brilliant time with him - I really do think "great" when he books as he's a lovely man!
It's also quite lucrative as he books every week or more. Perfect.
However now he's decide to drop the "L" bomb, which as we all know means that you either have the choice of saying it back (which I wouldn't, being an honest gal) and be expected to see him for free (you know, because you luurrve each other) or saying as nicely/ casually/kindly as you can that you're not interested. Which will of course mean that he will never book you again.
I think I'm particularly irritated because this person has never, ever, asked anything about me. He doesn't know my name, my marital status, my background, my real personality, anything about my hobbies, or anything about my daily life. Yet he loves me, apparently, on the basis of the fantasy that I (am paid to) project.
Which in summary means a very nice client, with the associated income stream, goes down the toilet.
So very annoying.
xx
This resonates with me so strongly - I've briefly posted something about it elsewhere.
I have been seeing a client twice a week, sometimes three times for the past month or so. After each visit, the texts become more intrusive, more irritating and more of an invasion of my privacy. The ole 'I won't bug you by text but.....'.
The upshot is the latter messages were stating that he needs to know he's special (he's not), needs to know he is the most important guy I see (he's not) and needs me to inform him when I'm seeing other guys (errr, nope!). Would text war and peace telling me trivial aspects of his life that had no bearing on me at all. On two occasions I basically told him he needs to back off or I can't see him. He promised he would. Last week I message him saying if this continues I'm not seeing him, nor will there be another chance. Cheeky twat responded that He couldn't see me anymore as there was feelings involved. If I'm honest, I thought 'thank fuck for that'. Then 5 minutes later he said, 'I didn't mean, I'm just in L with you'
I then said, sorry, that's it, I'm not seeing you anymore because you are taking the piss and making me feel completely uncomfortable. Take care and don't contact me again. I didn't hear anything until yesterday afternoon and got this essay about life being too short to fall out and can I give him another chance as he 'Wasn't that bad?'. Talk about needy!! I basically said, no chance, it's done and I'm not interested. Today ffs, I get a text saying I'm deleting your number now yadda, yadda and waffled on. I didn't answer and have just blocked him.
I'll be honest; up until last week when I told him I wouldn't be seeing him again I was getting more and more bothered by the latter text messages. You know when you're out somewhere and you feel like a creep is eyeballing you? It got to be like that. This guy was also lucrative and really good company but within a short time, he became needy, possessive, annoying and downright creepy.
I'm relieved he has gone and I hope guys like him are few and far between - for all of us WGs xx
Topic: The "I love you" death knell from an otherwise lovely, and great fun client. (Read 19417 times)